• KrupskayaPraxis
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    2 years ago

    Why the fuck are transphobes so hyperfocused on the genitalia of trans people?

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    2 years ago

    Both of these people are absolutely deranged on opposite sides of the argument. The first person acts like relationships are some Gatcha gambling game where compatibility doesn’t exist and things such as wanting children is transphobic.

    On the other side of the isle you have a disgusting insecure misogynist who hasn’t been within 15 ft of a woman for the last 25 years, and sees them as something for him to control.

    Liberalism has melted the minds of millions of people…

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      The first person acts like relationships are some Gatcha gambling game where compatibility doesn’t exist and things such as wanting children is transphobic.

      They didn’t really say that everyone should date trans women otherwise they’re transphobic or that having children is transphobic, but they’re ranting about these excuses being hypocritical, I’m not really sure of the person’s opinions outside the video, but they didn’t express denial towards others from dating through compatibility or attraction to genitalia, atleast not here, idk really but would not wanting to date black girls because of their skin color count as racism or is the example not similar?

      Anyhow best option rn is to watch other vids of them (no need to watch vids from Isaac we already know what he is) and judge if they’re weirdos or not… I’ll be back

      Edit: I can’t read ant tf is their @

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        That’s understandable, but I still feel as if the reasoning is a bit faulty. For example with the children argument, why is it assumed that the same standard would not apply to infertile cis women? Disagreement over children is a prime factor of divorce, marriage issues, and personal misery and regret in a relationship, so the stance of both partners on children should be made clear from the beginning. Neither side deserves to be miserable, and they deserve to have their choice maintained, that is the core of healthy communication like that. In the case of a trans partner where biological children would not be a possibility, it would not be transphobic to incorporate that reasoning into the decision final decision of whether a relationship should be pursued. That is a healthy and well thought out approach to dating that everyone should utilize, as it will lead to longer term and a better relationship between partners.

        However, some of their other points do hold merit and I readily agree with them. For example, the “black” example you put forward does raise a good point. As a blanket statement regarding not wishing to date another race appear as only discriminatory. Mostly because once the question “Why?” is asked, the response is usually a very racist or purity based response. The same reasoning applies for trans people, as how can a person say that they would never date anyone from a massive group?

        Though in the quest for equality and trans rights, it must be remembered that relationships are not some game that should be lightly played, and are a delicate balance between the mental, physical, and emotional health and growth of both individuals.