• bleepingblorp
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    9 months ago

    Time to arm yourself and your partner… martial arts lessons might also be a good idea.

    Another comrade also suggested a camera pointed at your car. I concur. Double check who is at the door before answering. Get a peephole if you don’t have one.

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      9 months ago

      I started doing martial arts back in university and kept it up for like 20 years now. Of course, you never know if the guy will have a knife or a gun, so still definitely concerning. But I’m as well prepared for that as I’m going to be I figure. More worried for my partner, and I’m thinking we should order some bear spray for her to carry. I did get a cam, so we’ll see if that catches anything.

      edit: turns out stuff like pepper spray isn’t actually legal in Canada, so there goes that idea

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        Just checked and tasers are illegal up there too, what the fuck is going in in canada

        Honestly, maybe a vial of capascin powder and sand than can be poured into the hand and thrown?

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          9 months ago

          I’m mostly worried about my partner, but looks like we can get her coyote spray which is at least legal here.

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            Something to be wary of is, iirc, a lot of stuff becomes illegal in Canada if you’re carrying it for self-defense reasons. Like owning a baseball bat is fine, owning a baseball bat and telling a cop (hypothetically, of course we wouldn’t talk to a cop) that you’re carrying it in case someone attacks you is not fine. So you’d need to go with something that has a plausible reason you’d be carrying it that isn’t this racist asshole I think

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              I was just reading up on this. We have some weird rules here. Basically, you’re not allowed to carry any item with express purpose of self defense, but you can use it incidentally if you had one on you for a different purpose. And there’s also the whole proportional force aspect.

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          9 months ago

          To be fair pepper spray is like, a war crime so it’s not at all surprising why it’s not allowed.

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        Wait, so you’re Canadian? Well Canada has very well defined hate crime legislation, so you can very easily get this nazi to do some hard time before they have a chance to carry out any acts of domestic terrorism against your family. For all the country’s flaws they at least take that kind of shit seriously.

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          Yup I’m from Canada, I did file a report with the hate crime unit, so we’ll see where that goes. The messages have been unhinged, but stopping short of being direct threats so far. If the cops really did want to find this guy they’d have to contact Iristel, the company that provides the sms service, and they could get the identity of whoever sent the message to my number that way. It wouldn’t be that hard to do. They did say they’ll get back to me, so I’ll post an update on how this develops.

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              Yeah that’s what I figure. A friend of mine said something similar happened with him, and what he ended up doing was to get a lawyer to open a civil case which leads to discovery where they figure out who the other party is. It cost him around 3k to do it, but if this keeps going might be worth it.