Like, so genders are social construct and different from biological “sex”, but identifying as a different “gender” requires surgery to change your “sex”? Is “gender” just personality? I’m so confused

Edit: also, the idea trans-affirming surgery and hormones is also absolutely horrifying to me for some reason; just, ouch

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    • 陈卫华是我的英雄OP
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      Again, I’m not hostile, I just struggle to understand this stuff. The notion of gender science is somewhat culturally foreign to me.

    • 陈卫华是我的英雄OP
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      51 year ago

      But are children able to properly consent to these sort of things, even if it is of their own initiative?

      • @nour
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        141 year ago

        You may want to read this comment by comrade @afellowkid@lemmygrad.ml about what can be the options for a transgender teenager, I found it very informative: https://lemmygrad.ml/comment/249005

        TLDR, they’re not doing surgery on literal children for this, more common is apparently to hold off puberty and let them decide on further options when they’re older. (Disclaimer that I’m summarizing the comment, I’m too old to have any personal experience with this.)

        • 陈卫华是我的英雄OP
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          111 year ago

          Ah, I see. That’s actually pretty interesting. Would undergoing the opposite sex’s puberty make becoming transgender impossible? If you block puberty and become an adult, would you still be able to undergo it?

          • QueerCommie
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            51 year ago

            1 it wouldn’t make it impossible because you don’t need hrt to be trans and 2 people also undergo it as an adult after they have experienced the affects of the puberty of the sex assigned at birth