It’s like how you act around close friends vs how you going to act when around new people you want to have a good impression with. It’s fun to rip on ppl and act dumb around fellow comrades but when it comes time to debate and argue your points you gotta buckle down. Its, imo, another big distinction between communists and anarkiddies. Be the adult in the room.

This isn’t to say be tolerant however. But you gotta learn how to be passive aggressive and demeaning without coming off like a prick. As I said in another comment. Gotta work on the finesse. Destroy their argument and shit on their ego.