Yeah, they cry about how “authoritarian” our mods are, but every time I look at another lemmy instance I see the mods abusing their powers far more than here, our mods are generally patient and willing to just give temp bans rather than permanent bans.

Also hilarious to see other instances being nonstop “uncivil” with each other, the mask of civility slips off very quickly, they always bicker and argue in a way I just don’t see here. We actually seem to get along with each other and when we disagree, it’s time for education, not hurling baseless insults (insults are still hurled, but not baseless ones). I think that might be why their brains short circuit a little bit when they deal with us, because in lib to lib communication, they will just ignore what the other person said and pretend they said something else so they can argue against that instead. Then when they want to “win” they just announce “logical fallacy” and declare victory. But we don’t tolerate that here, we actually read what they say, and expect them to do the same.