• amemorablename
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    17 days ago

    Reminds me of a video I watched where someone was talking about fawning as a learned behavior from growing up with a narcissist. And then they differentiated fawning from “fluffing”, where you are temporarily fluffing up a narcissist to get a desired result out of them, like in a professional work context, so you can just get through the project and then get away from them when you’re able to. This feels like textbook fluffing.

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      17 days ago

      isn’t that the guy on a pornshoot who keeps the pornstars hard

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        17 days ago

        Lmao, shit, that is very similar terminology isn’t it. I wonder if the one use derives from the other.

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        Yeah a fluffer is a [gender the male pornstar is attracted to] that does varying acts on the pornstar before shots start to ensure proper performance.

        It’s basically the same thing just different situations.

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          oh i thought it was mostly men who mostly inject medications into those guys’ dicks to give them priapism