Akuma no Uta is great, along with Altar
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Farvanatoneurodiverse@hexbear.net•What are your coping skills for self harm/angry outbursts?English2·17 days agoThere’s a lot of good advice about emotional regulation here! I think there’s some work that can be done around perspective, though- especially as you’re coming out of burnout.
It seems like you’re very attached to specific outcomes, like you don’t know if you can manage or be safe if things don’t work the way you imagine. Can you try to center your flexibility in these situations? Thoughts like, “this isn’t what I intended but I can make this work,” or “this will take a little longer now, but I still like doing this” (using cooking ingredients or computer work as examples). Feeling competent and capable leads to feeling safe, and positive self talk, even if it feels cringe at first, helps get you there faster.
A) Kansas B) Colorado A) Kansas B) Colorado
Farvanato retrocomputing@lemmy.sdf.org•Windows 95 chime composer Brian Eno denounces Microsoft for its ties to Israeli government8·23 days agoWindows 95 chime composer.
Windows 95 chime composer.
I guess Stevie Wonder was just a sunglasses enthusiast?
Nerd Poker! Brian Posehn has been doing comedy for ages (He was in Mr. Show) and has been playing DnD with his colleagues for about as long. I absolutely lose it to some bit at least every other episode. There’s a huge backlog of bonus episodes with special guests if you subscribe but the main feed is still great.
Farvanatoneurodiverse@hexbear.net•Does this sound like dissociating or something else?English6·27 days agoThis sounds very much like what my spouse deals with: ADHD with CPTSD.
I’ve found this couple to be really informative: https://www.tiktok.com/@adhd_love?lang=en
Farvanato games@hexbear.net•I just got a Steam deck after saving up for one. Please recommend games.English4·28 days agoJust picked up Citizen Sleeper 2, it’s stellar
Farvanato chat@hexbear.net•This might cause a struggle but: Calling people prudes for not wanting to sexualise themselves is badEnglish201·1 month agoI think both posts are complaining about the same thing: policing each other’s behaviors and expression of sexuality.
Maybe a lot of incels/gooners bring their lack of sex on themselves by not considering others desires or experiences. Until they figure that out, they have to be removed from common spaces. The loneliness epidemic is self-inflicted (and exacerbated by patriarchal capitalism).
Farvanato chapotraphouse@hexbear.net•Woman doused friend in fuel, set him alight over misogynistic commentEnglish81·1 month agoEat shit, misogynist
You can make your own syrups, and can make flavors that just don’t exist in a can. I especially like shrubs, syrups that include vinegar.
Farvanato Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What is personally your favorite insult or what is the best comeback you've heard that destroyed someone?1·1 month agoI had a buddy who teed himself up for your mom jokes constantly. I swung and hit pretty much every time.
One evening he had enough and blew up. “God, you’re such a dick! You must be the biggest dick in the fucking world!”
“Well, I fit in your mom just fine, so I don’t see what the problem is.”
Pretty terrible graphic
There are a lot people who don’t like it and see it as unprofessional.
Farvanato Comradeship // Freechat•My Social Security disability claim was rejected, unfortunately...3·2 months agoMy spouse who is asleep knows a lot more about this, but off the dome:
Social Security retirement benefits are an entirely different system than social security disability insurance. SSDI shouldn’t be dependent on hours worked, but on disability status.
A few things to note about SSDI: there are very stringent income limits while on it. You will be severely constrained in your living standards. What you get isn’t really adjusted for local cost of living, so you may be alright, or you may struggle to pay rent and eat.
Initial rejections are the norm. It generally takes two years to go through the appeal, rejection, re-appeal cycle. A good disability lawyer will smooth this out but the time frame is not going to shrink to less than a year. I would not depend on this for a car or school.
If you are unable to work enough to support yourself, I think it’s worth pursuing, but SSDI is designed to keep people from using it as a stepping stone to better circumstances.
Wish I had better news/advice. Good luck, comrade!
I love Re-animator so much. Splatstick mad doctor sorceror’s duel starring Jeffrey Combs
Nah.
Equilibrium’s character arc hinged on the idea that murdering puppies is bad. It’s not exactly deep.
Farvanato Asklemmy@lemmy.ml•What task would you excel in if you lived in the Stone Age?5·2 months agoKnapping.
Wait, I mean napping.
Decadeez nutz or something