• zed_proclaimer [he/him]@hexbear.net
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    Girls liking cute skinny guys really, really pisses off chuds. I can’t tell you how many shlubby bearded gamer-bro types I’ve heard complaining about “girls like girlish boys not manly men like me nowadays, what the hell is going wrong with the world”.

    Your out of shape and unkempt appearance was never attractive gamers, there’s not a horde of hot twinks out there stealing all the women you just don’t care about your own appearance and stay inside all day. Have you tried going to mixed social events and being nice and funny? Have you taken some time working on your appearance to match your expectations? (If you want a woman who shaves and wears make-up, you better be bathing and styling your hair and getting nice clean outfits too)

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      Thanks, I knew this was just homophobia but I couldn’t parse out exactly why. Crazy that even straight people are gay now…that’s why no babies… I haven’t seen a baby in years but everywhere I go im being stalked by a lacanian super predator or a murder Twink.

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    Guys I know whoever posted this a nut but as an extremely hairy overweight man reading through this comment section was kind of depressing in that it made me feel like my body makes others perceived me to be some invel loser merely because of those factors. I get this guy is being a homophobic douche but damn could we tone it down with body shaming. I swear people here pretend to care about that shit until a"gamer" comes along. Staying in shape is hard. Please don’t make your points aboutincels need to groom themselves by bashing their bodies

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      I’m sorry, pal. There’s no need to shame physical appearances. I was overweight and unhealthy most of the last few years. We are set up to fail with our health in this society. I know it’s a huge struggle. Hang in there.

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          The big thing to me I think are the portions. They are insane. I cut back on my portions and that allowed me to drop like 20lbs with no other changes. I’m not exaggerating, portions in America are at least 3 times what they should be.

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            Yeah that’s a big part of it to. I was able to live in a walkable place for 6 months with much smaller portions sizes than here. I I lost 30 lbs over six months without consciously doing anything different.

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              I try to go on a walk every day too. It’s almost like meditation to me (when I’m not listening to Marxist podcasts). It’s helped a lot. Just getting in movement when you can helps a lot.

              Edit: not trying to give unsolicited advice, I’ve just found that making some minor changes can have a positive effect on your mold and health.

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      Big hairy guys are fun don’t let it get to you. Yes the overweight ones too. Almost everyone I know would pick that over those enormous bodybuilding guys.

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          I mean that too, there’s like a certain person who has a “type” for those guys and they’ll go after them exclusively but otherwise I have only seen it turn off people. There’s definitely a lot of people that have a type for the overweight big hairy guys but also they’re just not particularly disliked either if clean and nice. Probably too much info? I dunno here on these topics and I’m running on basically no sleep right now looool smoothskin

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            Yeah yeah I get you. Honestly I was feeling a little lonely before I saw this thread so I guess it got to me more. (Not to excuse body shaming) I know I’m sexy AF comfy-cool

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      CHUDs always act like “modern pop culture” just appeared out of nowhere the instant they decided to get mad about it. They don’t seem to understand that pop culture changes and evolves and is influenced by previous pop culture and society (and capital of course, but if they can’t figure out the other stuff, there’s no way they’re ready for that conversation)

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      I also didn’t know so I read the first paragraph and no further about the component words on wikipedia.

      Lacanian:

      Lacanianism or Lacanian psychoanalysis is a theoretical system that explains the mind, behaviour, and culture through a structuralist and post-structuralist extension of classical psychoanalysis, initiated by the work of Jacques Lacan from the 1950s to the 1980s. Lacanian perspectives contend that the world of language, the Symbolic, structures the human mind, and stress the importance of desire, which is conceived of as perpetual and impossible to satisfy. Contemporary Lacanianism is characterised by a broad range of thought and extensive debate between Lacanians.

      Super :

      Super key (❖) is an alternative and older name for what is commonly labelled as the Windows key[1] or Command key[2] on modern keyboards, typically bound and handled as such by Linux and BSD operating systems and software today.

      The Super key was originally a modifier key on a keyboard designed for Lisp machines at MIT.

      Predator:

      Predator is a wooden roller coaster located at Six Flags Darien Lake. It was designed by Curtis D. Summers and built by Dinn Corporation and opened on May 25, 1990.

      So I think we can say that it is quite a retro thing. Strong 1980s vibes. A lot of strong opinions going up and down and pressing buttons that do different things depending if you are aist or a libertarian.