• Erika3sis [she/her, xe/xem]@hexbear.net
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    Dao De Jing literally opens with,

    道可道,非常道。名可名,非常名。

    “The way that can be followed is not the unchanging way; the name that can be called is not the unchanging name.”

    If that wasn’t trans enough, one translation renders the immediately following line as, “With your mouth unopened, things left undefined, you stand at the beginning of the universe; make definitions, and you are the measure of all creation” - although this seems like a pretty deviant translation from the original text.

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      Here’s how Le Guin’s version renders these parts, just for fun:

      The way you can go
      isn’t the real way.
      The name you can say
      isn’t the real name

      Heaven and earth
      begin in the unnamed:
      name’s the mother
      of the ten thousand things.

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            To be fair, it’s much better for modern Chinese (most of the time) but this being so old and poetic yeah it just has no idea what to do with it lol

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          10 months ago

          lmao

          道可道 the path you can take
          非常道 is not the usual path

          道 means road/path/way
          可 means can

          道可道 means the path/way you can go/take

          非 means not, 常 by itself means normal/conventional/usual, but 非常 together means very (lit. unusual but common usage simply means “very”)

          the translator interpreted it as 非常 道 “very road” lol when it should be 非 常道 “not the normal/conventional path”

          名 means name

          名可名 the name you can name
          非常名 is not the usual name

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    I needed somebody to tell me it was not a kink and then 4 years of dealing with little Hitler’s little Helpers that gatekeep the shit out of it

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    Shit, I did the same shit back in the day. Where’s my helpful vision?!

    Best I got was a half-coherent toilet telling me my life was following the same path as the log I just flushed.

  • LeylaLove [she/her, love/loves]@hexbear.netM
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    For me, the thing that sealed my transition was a depression trip. A few years ago, I had just come to terms with being trans and came out to my girlfriend. Being a cis person, she didn’t take it well. Rough month. I was having second thoughts about transitioning just because of how awful my social environment was for transitioning. Well the night before my first family dinner after accepting I’m trans, my birthday dinner, I dropped molly, just ate shrooms out of the jar when I had pounds at any given point, and took a random amount of acid tabs from a full sheet. I took an insane amount of shit, I have no idea how I maintained any sort of lucidity. Terrible idea, don’t do it. Track your doses, and Most of the trip was hellish and depressing. However, there was one moment in the middle of it that was completely life changing. I had been bawling my eyes out all night because I just felt the pressure of never being accepted as my chosen gender. I looked in the mirror (also usually a terrible idea on trips) and didn’t see what I expected to see. I saw an insanely beautiful woman staring back at me in the mirror. Long curly hair, brown eyes, bright red cheeks, freckles, she was me! I wasn’t seeing who I was in that moment, but I saw the woman that I wanted to become, and realized that it was perfectly attainable. I spent at least an hour just staring at myself in the mirror during that trip, I was completely entranced by the idea of that being what I looked like on the inside.

    As a child, I always imagined this girl with a flowy dress standing next to dried bush, with the overcast of an early October afternoon. I always thought that was my dream woman, but in that moment in the bathroom, I realized it had always been me. I was imagining who I wanted to be.