• PeriodicallyPedantic@lemmy.ca
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    God, just today someone was telling me that definitions were “facts”, and that staying “LGBTQ” was “changing the meaning of the alphabet” somehow.

    They were celebrating a bunch of women not being able to attend a job fair, but then started telling me that they were “protecting women”

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    Seems like debate and people changing their minds when presented with new information is something that died around 9/11, if it ever even existed. Even the most mild vocal disagreement just further entrenches people in their feelings.
    There’s just no point.

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        As a junior middle aged (40yo) person, I can confirm with the caveat that the number of things that are considered common sense rather than completely subjective matters of opinion has changed a shitload since the turn of the millennium, with 9/11 being one of the major catalysts.

        When I was growing up in the 80s and 90s, outlandish conspiracy theories were rightly considered fringe lunacy and being a nazi or any other kind of fascist was a shameful thing that you had to hide to be accepted, not a resurgent movement across most North America and Europe.

        Just to name two of the worst examples of thousands of ways that discourse has worsened since the “good old days” when other things were much worse.

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          As a young person (18yo), I feel like this is mostly true for the internet but not so much in real life. Most people I know don’t believe stupid shit like this, even though there are of course some people that do, at least when it comes to conspiracy theories. Being a nazi, especially here in germany, will make most people, by far, dislike you and there’s a good chance you’ll just get a punch in the face if you tell that to someone. But at the same time, the internet has made people able to communicate with others that share the same stupid opinions so maybe it did increase because they don’t feel like they’re alone in that believe anymore. I can’t really compare it to how it was before the internet tho because I grew up with the internet already being a thing.

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          I think the only thing that really changed is the internet removed the gatekeeping role of centralized information sources. When you were a kid, was CNN still the end-all-be-all oracle and arbiter of concrete truth? In my mom’s generation, it was Walter Cronkite, of course. And if you were one of those people who got your information from Coast to Coast AM or other AM radio shows, you were considered a weirdo because if any of that stuff was really true, then Ted Koppel would have reported on it.

          But also, looking back now, how fucking bizarre was it that they televised the invasion of Iraq twice? That’s some serious colonial behavior and I had no idea at the time. Now I can see it for what it was.

          But also, I really wish we had had one centralized authority to give us information and advice about how to handle Covid. So I think there’s good and bad things about the change.

    • bob_wiley@lemmy.world
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      Everyone thinks it’s the other person that needs to change their mind when presented with the new information. Both sides feel like they are right and the other side is stupid for not understanding.

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      It happens, it just never comes to a satisfying synthesis. I changed my opinion a few times after one of those big 25 reply arguments, though I never admitted to it in the moment.

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      It’s always been a thing to not really want to admit you’re wrong. Half of debate is just realizing you’re not ever going to change your opponent’s mind real-time. Ego gets in the way way too hard, particularly on a public platform. Debating on a public platform is more to try to convince people in the audience that are more moderate.

      Sometimes, your good argument can also actually change the other person’s mind, even slightly, but you’ll probably never SEE it. That doesn’t mean it’s pointless, just that if you’re expecting to get something out of the act of debating, it has to be something other than changing your oppo mind.

  • Pons_Aelius@kbin.social
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    Anyone who does not understand what I am saying = Idiot.

    Anyone who disagrees with what I am saying = Troll

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        I don’t see a point of constantly shifting the words. It’s the meaning that matters. I’ve heard people use “mentally challenged” the same way people used idiot and removed. Now if I look up “mentally challenged” it’s directing me to “Intellectual disability”, which still means in the same thing, so it’s only a matter of time before people start using that and the words have to change again. It all seems so pointless. No one likes being called an idiot, but it’s there will always be a word to cover that meaning. We might as well just use the words we had.

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          I once told a coworker doing dumb shit to “Take a minute, go outside and count your chromosomes.”

          I also told another one “You are wasting my time AND the time of the tree that makes your oxygen”

          I never used the words idiot or removed, but I meant every word. Because if being removeded out for unsafe behavior hurts your feelings, you’re really going to hate being thrown offsite and having to beg HR to keep your job. Because those are my choices, removed you out or write you up.

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          I don’t see a point of constantly shifting the words.

          There is no point, that is just what humans do with language. It is never static. Always evolving.

          Every generation crates new slang to differentiate themselves from their parents. Give it enough time and Latin turns into French, Spanish, Portuguese, Italian and Romanian because each local population changed Latin in different directions.

          It is even happening to English. There are now several sub-languages of English according to linguists.

          UK English.

          US English

          Aus English

          Singapore English

          International English

          To name just a few.

          • bob_wiley@lemmy.world
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            Yeah, this stuff isn’t really slang though. They’re replacing the slang with ever more technical replacements in an effort to make something non-offensive, when the idea behind the words is inherently offensive. Then shame is used to drive adoption. Slang I get, this other stuff… it’s just annoying.

  • JiggityWeenis@lemmy.world
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    Sometimes you can hit the stage where either person admits they’re wrong.

    It only requires an analytic philosophy PHD- Level essay.

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    Any political idea that differs from someone else’s seems to get you these labels. They really don’t like it when you straight up tell them you are not going to continue the dialogue and call you one of these two things to get the last word.