PunsNRoses [he/him,comrade/them]

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Cake day: June 12th, 2023

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  • I had to dump my best friend of about 15 years a month ago because he went down a reactionary pipeline. He started spending a very unhealthy amount of time on 4chan and making incredibly racist and antisemitic jokes despite being told countless times to stop because it makes everyone uncomfortable. It almost seemed like he enjoyed how uncomfortable it made people, and whenever he was confronted on it he would play the victim and go around behind my back calling me a “wokescold”. It got to a point where all my other friends would ask me why I am still friends with him, and each time I would defend him.

    The straw that broke me was when I recently announced that I just found out that I am on the autism spectrum, and he responded saying “If I ever found out I was autistic I would actually kill myself”. Which is ironic, considering he is probably the most textbook example of someone on the spectrum. Everyone who meets him instantly recognizes it, even his family suspects it but are too self-absorbed to do anything about it. He refuses to get diagnosed, which fine nobody can force him, but he has so much self-hatred that he takes out on autistic people by bullying them online and openly admitting it. He has been banned from Twitter multiple times for bullying autistic and trans people, even wearing those bans like a badge of honor. I finally said enough is enough. I tried to show him the error of his ways but all it did was make our relationship more hostile. He has become such a hateful person and I just finally had enough.