I’m very sorry for rambling and writing terribly. It’s very late where I am and I feel exhausted after spending all day fighting myself again. I’ve been putting off sending a post like this for a while, but I just feel like I’m at the end of my rope. Hopefully I make at least a little sense. I just started typing and wrote from my heart without looking back. Thank you for reading.
I’m just very confused and its destroying my mental health. Thinking of the future in general is soul sucking. I don’t have dreams of traveling anymore, or going out with friends, or having a family or a high paying job. All I have is stress and fear from the very idea of working 40+ hour weeks at a dead end capitalist job with no vacations, no benefits, no sick days, playing a capitalist rat race, not having enough money to save up and support myself, and not having enough time or money to do anything interesting or worthwhile. I feel like I’m trapped in a cruel hell.
I’m currently in the college hell of trying to determine what to major in, and more importantly pursue in the future as a career or field. I’m quite lost and extremely anxious going through this. I feel that most of my interests are laughable and/or translate to poorly paying jobs, or are social “negatives” that can only be rarely applied in a very niche collection of spaces in a capitalist system (i.e. Marxism). For example I was very interested in political sciences, but jobs are one in a million if I weren’t to pursue academia or law which I’m not particularly interested in. Even then what little jobs there are are pretty much all for neoliberal, conservative, and imperialist; corporations, thinktanks, and government institutions. Along with that, all my dreams of the future feel empty and impossible now, as I have a hard time finding any strength to fight back against the system alone. It’s hard to see the purpose is trying. I feel like I made a big mistake walking out Plato’s cave and seeing the world for what it is. I wish I could go back to the blissful ignorance.
I can’t even decide what I like anymore, I don’t enjoy anything useful like Comp Sci or Medicine, and I don’t feel a particular strong passion or interest for any field, even ones that don’t pay well or are rare. For example I have a friend in art school, which while an unconventional and poorly respected path in the capitalist hellscape, they find great passion and interest in what they do and love every moment of it. Letting them pay little attention to the future.
Meanwhile I feel trapped thinking about the failure I will amount to as I am stuck paralyzed. All I can think about is the hellscape of the system I’m trapped in with no way to claw out of. Like a bad dream that you can’t wake up from.
I’m very privileged to have been able to see a a very distinguished and well respected therapist and psychologist for what’s been going on in my life, but even they’re clueless. All they can give are sad platitudes, and depressing agreement to what I say. They are a wonderful person and try their best, but it seems like there’s little someone can do to help a problem like this.
I feel trapped and cursed.
Currently, the community college option is what I’m doing, but it doesn’t feel like its going anywhere class wise as I haven’t found anything interesting out of the array of classes I’ve taken. Its also not like the place I go offers much at all since the place is basically just a glorified 2 year program to train people who want to be nurses since they make up 60-70% of the student body. There are also no clubs, organizations, or student activities in regards to the social aspect, and absolutely business connections, professor connections, or opportunities regarding financial or career services.
Very few colleges are also interested in me for transferring which is even more depressing. I missed the train that I should have taken in high school and done better and gone to a top four year when I could. Now I’ve just been left in the dirt. Even better, even if I do transfer by some miracle, I’ll have already missed the first 1-2 years of the college experience, which means 2 years of missed internships, connection making, smooth course planning, and from everything I’ve seen, as a junior I’ll also be shit out of luck regarding making friends and finding a group.
Don’t get hung up on the prestige of going to a renowned university. As long as it’s accredited, it doesn’t matter too much which one you attend. (and frankly, many of the students and staff of famous colleges huff their own farts)
I went to a public, commuter college where it was very common for students to transfer in. Aside from teenagers, you couldn’t tell which people came directly from high school and which didn’t. Also, I don’t know what college experience you’re talking about since the only substantial difference between the two groups is the orientation they had to go through: for high schoolers it was 2 days long & they had to stay the night, but transfers only had a quick tour guide. Maybe transferring in is a bigger deal for private colleges, but it did not matter at all for mine socially or academically.
As for starting your career, that is going to be shit no matter what. If you want an internship you’ll be shooting your resume into the breeze just as much as the next guy. Same goes for finding a job. Most of the time, companies will just tell you to submit your application through their website anyway so it’s not the end of the world if you miss a career fair or presentation.
Believe me when I say you haven’t missed the train. This country just sucks! Reassuring, I know.