I didn’t forget. I do not forgive. He knows exactly what he did.

Don’t know why this is getting down voted.

At least it isn’t a sea lion.

As someone with the AuDHD combo pack, I’ve gotten more mileage out of a model called the Mood Meter:

This helps frame what’s going on behind the emotion. Patience and de-escalation are the keys.

I’ll add this: I struggle with context, especially for intimate times. Routines help with everyday items but you may find that consciously creating an intimate context can be beneficial. This can involve reading spicy books together or whatever.

Finally, the fact that you’re making the effort to communicate is huge, but don’t forget to include your partner in this journey as you’re figuring out communication together.

I hate when people gatekeep what is"literature" and what is “genre”. One of the more egregious examples is someone was rest to die on the hill that The Time Traveler’s Wife is “literary fiction” instead of “genre fiction” like sci-fi, particularly since time travel is central to the plot.

TL;DR: anyone who calls one type of fiction literature and excludes the rest from that definition is deeply unserious and so are their statements.

This is a false flag operation written in crayon. Laughably transparent as it is internationally illegal. No surprises.

So, not only is this a Dark Souls bridge, it spans over an honest-to-god bottomless pit?

I’ve seen XHS users use “no investigation, no right to speak” on themselves to explain that while they have ideas, they don’t have a full understanding of the complexities and nuances we face. The fact that we’ve had this cultural exchange gives me how that there may be support in the future but now is the wrong time IMHO: The government is already wanting to start hostilities and that works be playing into their hands.

Soap, ballot, jury, cartridge. In that order.

It’s the classic fascist playbook: The Other is an unknowable evil that is simultaneously an existential threat and also incredibly weak.

You can set up a global exception handler in some frameworks. By having multiple (not a crazy amount) of exceptions, you can set up logic for how to handle that kind of error. Then you can just throw the exception instead of writing individual catch blocks.

This is especially helpful in things like a REST API where user input can cause all kinds of fun, let alone network issues, problems with your data source, etc.

This is like Dalinar and the fighting master from Stormlight Archive.

That’s why you set the alternate/exit cases as individual if statements before whatever was going to be inside the original if block.

To me too long to learn that.

Are you kidding? That’s very on brand for Janeway.

Lol I cany’t to say combine war and genocide and put in misogyny. Glad someone beat me to it.

Nevermind the the massive bi erasure.

Came to say this but you put it better then I ever could.

If it’s not available as an Azure service it won’t be used (except for uptime kuma).

What Clive Barker movie do you live in?

Who didn’t?

Dehumanization is a nasty trap. Their actions are vile and they must be stopped, but they are still people.