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Cake day: June 14th, 2023

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  • Pros

    • more attention to the Fediverse and all the advancement that may bring with it.
    • If the Fediverse ever becomes mainstream corporations will end up with their own content on it so having Meta join would provides early insight on how the Fediverse may be effected by becoming mainstream.

    Cons

    • Some instances may not have the server load to support being federated with Meta
    • There’s a decent chance it hinders healthy growth (Like a Cuckoo hatchling that starves out the bird’s actual children.)








  • I’m new here but if I stick around long enough I’ll probably get up my own server/instance(s) for the various parts of the fediverse I participle in. Mostly because it sounds neat and partially because it would allow other people I know to have a fediverse “home” operated by a familiar face (if the fediverse gets popular among the mainstream).

    Right now it’s just Lemmy, but I may eventually participate in Mastodon, Matrix, Peertube, Owncast and.

    I’m going to wait first though to see if the Lemmy userbase (and platform) remains healthy and/or grows. Then would come the hard part of setup, I’m familiar with technology, but nowhere near a professional or a hobbyist (unless you count gaming).




  • Hello, saw this post will sorting by all communities and new. I’m not an expert but thought I could at least provide advice on where to look for information.

    Have you tried looking at articles that talk about marriage and applying them to your situation. As moving in with someone else is a major part of marriage it’s likely that many of those points would also apply.

    Also, I don’t think it’s a time thing, I think it’s more along the lines of some questions that need to be answered for example:

    • Are you comfortable putting your financial well being in their hands?
    • Are you willing to regularly assist with any problems they may have? (stress, mental health, physical health, etc)
    • Do you share moral/political/religious beliefs?
    • Are you comfortable with their level of cleanliness?

    It’s been a while since I’ve taken a college level interpersonal communications course but I think I remember these questions coming up as things to consider in a romantic relationship.