I originally summarized my observations replying to Blaze in a different thread
I figured Iād include them here because in case anyone wants to correct my interpretation.
I had asked how he feels about posting in a com alongside people who are calling other users āremoved roachesā
He brought up that Hexbear users using the word roaches to refer to people too, my response:
From that link pretty much all of the usage is talking about the literal insect, or talking about reactionaries/fascists using it to refer to muslims, immigrants and other āundesirablesā.
Out of the handful of remaining uses, itās stuff like in the hexbear thread on this meanwhileongrad thread:


This is the most questionable usage I found, and itās referring to fash/reactionaries.
Thatās not the main point though, the bigger issue was getting called a āremovedā thatās pretty much a red flag that someoneās a cryptofash.
citing db0 on this one:

compare the use of the term on shit vs on hexbear:
While looking I found this one on hexbear from 5 years ago, almost 90 upvotes shitting on stalin for criminalizing homosexuality, and quoting him calling someone removed. I read this as extremely critical of Stalin:

All the usage on hexbear I see is either self-deprecating or discussing (negatively) about people using the term.
meanwhile on meanwhile on grad:
hmmm, calling people removed and complaining about commies, progressives and furries. 
Goat seems fine with replies calling people he doesnāt like removed:
more examples:

site admin calls it out, entirely downvoted lol
Like you might think Iām being melodramatic, but I really donāt see how meanwhileongrad isnāt a nazi bar.
As I said, I donāt have a dog in this fight, it seems indeed bad to have such comments on both sides.
I really hope you re-assess both sides, because they are not equivalent.
I understand, thereās plenty of problematic posters to go around, the issue I have is that itās normalized calling an instance which is overwhelmingly trans and queer āremovedā, thatās a major red flag, and itās behavior like that which was why hexbear defederated shit in the first place.
sh.it doesnāt seem to have improved in that time
As a bonus hereās some fun clips from this latest two minutes hate thread:

Goat has been really worked up lately, I arrived after the defederation happened, but I read the hexbear threads related to this not long after I started lemmy and his interpretation of events is comically conspiratorial.
The chronology was that hexbear had been off doing its own thing for like 3 years, and only re-merged with lemmy due to the technical issues maintaining a separate fork. That happened to coincide with the major reddit wave, correct me if Iām wrong but nobody here is taking orders from dessalines, right?
It looks like Hexbear tried to broadly fedarate, some users were looking forward to it, but others apprehensive and preferring to keep everyone else out. Once it became more clear how toxic and unmoderated most of the fediverse was, they made the decision to defederate.
Also is there a discord? The only matrix groups Iām aware of are for mods and the trans space. People should probably be aware that thereās potentially nazi trolls hanging out there.

One last one for the road, goat upvote policing and accusing db0 of being pro-uygher genocide.
so whatās the official hexbear line on calling people removed or cockroaches?



I feel like calling reactionaries ācockroachesā is an insult to real cockroaches who have a number of impressive traits and can often be pretty adorable. We should get a little more creative with our insults. For example, ācrotch louseā to me has a bit more punch anyways. Or maybe something like āsmegmaā would work if we wanted to move away from insects entirely.