• ComradeSalad
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    2 months ago

    It’s a shitty catch 22, where all you’re doing is screwing over a random working class person.

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      2 months ago

      What you are describing is a hostage situation and we don’t negotiate with terrorists.

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        2 months ago

        That is the most comically bizarre way I have ever seen someone describe the problem of tipping.

        A hostage situation? Who is forcing you to go to a restaurant? I don’t remember Marx or Lenin ever writing about how having a waiter serve you is a human right.

        If you don’t want to tip, and want to “fight back”, then don’t go to restaurants; it’s that simple. Going to a place where you want and know a working class person has to serve you, and then stiffing them because they’re a “terrorist” holding you “hostage”, just makes you sound entitled and full of yourself.

        Yes, the practice of tipping is disgusting. So is screwing over a working class person who you forced to serve you by willingly going to a restaurant. Imagine knowing about a broken system, and instead of not patronizing places that demand tipping, you still go there and take out your “righteous cause” on a random person busting their ass to serve you so they won’t starve. But you’re perfectly fine with them serving you, just the paying them part.

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          2 months ago

          You’re missing the point, in this analogy the worker is the hostage and the boss is the terrorist. Also i was being facetious.

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            Sorry, I’ve just had plenty of friends get stiffed by “leftists” and chuds who claimed they were fighting back against the evil practice of tipping. People just trying to pay for housing while attending college and barely eating anything.

            But I also didn’t really miss the point. If the worker is a hostage and the boss is the terrorist; then why are you patronizing the terrorist by eating at their restaurant? While simultaneously stiffing a working class person.

            Also your comment was in response to me saying that it’s a Catch22 if you don’t tip but still eat at a restaurants, as that only harms a working class person.

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              I’ve just had plenty of friends get stiffed

              The word “stiffed” says it all, though. It’s not “stiffed” when tipping is a bribe, not an entitlement, to begin with. The workers are getting stiffed by their boss, not the customers. It’s a particularly American mannerism and social divide-and-conquer mechanism to react to getting stiffed by ones’ employer, by trying to extort the customer instead rather than deal with the problem itself.

              People just trying to pay for housing while attending college and barely eating anything.

              And doesn’t this also go for most other people, as well? Most people in the US for instance can’t swallow a 500$ emergency expense, and are loaded to the gills with debt, among other things. Why should they have to bother with your country’s especially deranged form of bribery to top it all off?

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                Then why are you eating at a restaurant?

                Don’t like it? Want to fight back? Don’t go?

                If you go and stiff. You’re an entititled prick. That simple.

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                  To >95% of the world, you’re the one who comes off as not only entitled, but outright deluded, you realize that right? But sure, keep on promoting shaking down other proles for an extra buck rather than dealing with the real issue (that the rest of the world doesn’t have to deal with).

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                    Then don’t go. Is that not doable? You think you are fighting some righteous cause by hurting a random prole while still paying the owner for the food?

                    Where am I demanding to shake down proles to support tipping? Are you deaf?

                    Why do you demand to be served? Is that luxury that unavoidable?

                    Also 95% of the world. Sure, that’s great, but the US and it’s tipping culture is not 95% of the world. Just because the system is disgusting and needs to be swept aside, doesn’t mean that you aren’t a selfish prick by stiffing random proletariat because you demand their labour for a luxury but then claim the high ground when it’s beneficial to you.

                    “Solidarity with the working class” huh? Guess you only do that when it’s beneficial to you. If you eat at a restaurant and don’t tip, you are hurting no one but the server. The restaurant owner already got paid.

                    JUST DON’T GO TO PLACES THAT DEMAND TIPPING.

                    Eating out is a luxury. No ethical consumption is for life’s necessities, not luxuries.

                    I DONT EAT OUT AND WORK WITH LOCAL SERVERS UNIONS FOR THIS VERY REASON.

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          Your American brainworms are showing. Much of the world doesn’t tip and is better off for it. In no sensible worldview is a gratuity, basically a bribe, something “owed” to the server (not to mention the fact that servers aren’t the only ones involved in the product).

          There’s something owed to the server- a living wage, but that’s between the staff and employer. Customers have nothing to do with it, and there is no ethical consumption to begin with (not to say that there cannot be “more ethical” forms of consumption- but let’s not kid ourselves, tipping does not factor whatsoever into that equation). A product has a price, and that’s how it works- anything more is a bribe, not an entitlement. Do you “owe a tip” to every other underpaid worker you pass by or of whom you occupy a moment’s worth of their time? The notion of “screwing over” someone by not coughing up the customary bribe is completely and utterly laughable. American culture being a- perhaps irrecoverable- dumpster fire doesn’t change anything in that sense.

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            I find contentious threads like this fascinating, for one thing you can really see who here is American and who isn’t based on their deeply culturally ingrained views on this issue.