Romantic and platonic-friendship. Valuing voting on solutions, no one dominates X position (ex managing finances for the relationship due to gender) unjustly, mutual aiding each other etc.
If anyone has any ideas about how a good relationship would work in ancap, fascism or communism i’d be interested to hear your take.
Fascism = usually/never gender equality, and that’s gonna cause tension unless it’s same gender relationship. I could imagine lesbian homofascist being married to another lesbian homofascist would work, until one of them becomes ‘old’ first and becomes disabled.
Ancap = wouldn’t people be looking too intently for the next richest accessible person and drop previous relations? By good relationship, i don’t mean financially richest relationship haha.
Communist = in a polyarmorous relationship, the leader might become disliked and not step down?
Most relationship behavior is not very related to the political leanings of the persons involved. In fact it is not uncommon to see quite the opposite behavior.
Idk, but I guess complex interpersonal relationships are hard to press into largely theoretical frameworks of how society as a whole should work.
I think as long as it is voluntary by all parties involved, people should come to their own arrangements regardless of how they align with my (or their) ideas of how larger society would be better.
never in my life have I seen a relationship that wasn’t hugely shaped by the political believes of those in. Not all political believes are a matter to love relationship, but there’s a huge portion of political believes that is.
Look at what people do and not what they say. Especially in love relationships the discrepancy between what people say (usually close to political opinions) and what they do is often huge.
Yes, and this decrepancy is for me part of their policial believes. When I try to map peoples believes, I never do that purly on what they say, I do it based on all sorts of signals I get from them.
To some extend, but sometimes people also have certain political opinions for their public and professional life, but intentionally (or not) act different in their most private life to counter-balance that. And I don’t mean that they are all hypocrites… humans are just complex beings with multiple, sometimes counter-acting desires.
yes I know. And that is part of their identity and political believes.
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I think you mean ancaps, facists tend to be big about “family” and honor and that kind of shit.