Romantic and platonic-friendship. Valuing voting on solutions, no one dominates X position (ex managing finances for the relationship due to gender) unjustly, mutual aiding each other etc.
If anyone has any ideas about how a good relationship would work in ancap, fascism or communism i’d be interested to hear your take.
Fascism = usually/never gender equality, and that’s gonna cause tension unless it’s same gender relationship. I could imagine lesbian homofascist being married to another lesbian homofascist would work, until one of them becomes ‘old’ first and becomes disabled.
Ancap = wouldn’t people be looking too intently for the next richest accessible person and drop previous relations? By good relationship, i don’t mean financially richest relationship haha.
Communist = in a polyarmorous relationship, the leader might become disliked and not step down?
Look at what people do and not what they say. Especially in love relationships the discrepancy between what people say (usually close to political opinions) and what they do is often huge.
Yes, and this decrepancy is for me part of their policial believes. When I try to map peoples believes, I never do that purly on what they say, I do it based on all sorts of signals I get from them.
To some extend, but sometimes people also have certain political opinions for their public and professional life, but intentionally (or not) act different in their most private life to counter-balance that. And I don’t mean that they are all hypocrites… humans are just complex beings with multiple, sometimes counter-acting desires.
yes I know. And that is part of their identity and political believes.