Seems like a lot of these have been poping up lately. Stuff like “censorship”, “e2ee”, “privacy” to a large extend and so on. IMHO worth thinking about when engaging people here on Lemmy or elsewhere.

  • @roastpotatothief@lemmy.ml
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    3 years ago

    Thanks that’s very relatable.

    Like talking to almost anyone about covid. Issues like virus safety, herd immunity, the value of a decrepit person’s life versus a child’s etc. People are afraid to start thinking critically, for various reasons. Instead they have a jumble of dogmas.

    People seen happy to have the same conversation over and over, where they comfortingly repeat the slogans back to each other.

    I usually take the opposite tack. Force the issue. Talk about the elephant in the room.

    Avoiding important subjects, or beating around the bush with euphemisms, it is worse in the long run.

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      Well, yes. But this isn’t really what this article is about. Often what you think is the “elephant in the room” is very much such a metaphorical landmine. It just derails any sensible conversation, and there is very little you can do to not fall into such a trap unless you carefully think about where such metaphorical landmines might be.

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    Thank you for this. I just found a way to resolve conflicts with some people who self activate such landmines against me to derail my points. Lemmy does not have gilding like Reddit, so have it here:

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