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  • 🎀 Seryph (She/Her)
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    4 months ago

    I just realised that I have not heard someone say my name irl in over a month. And even online its only been in two conversations. Weird how this hurts more now than it used to, although I guess that’s to be expected since I’ve gotten used to actually being out.

    • rayne [she/her]@hexbear.net
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      4 months ago

      Sorry that’s happening, Seryph.

      Had a blowout with my mom yesterday. She wasn’t dead naming me. Just stopped using names for me once I asked to be called a different name.

      trans-heart

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        4 months ago

        Oh that sucks, having the people you love degender you like that is awful, as is it becoming a fight that she (I presume) didn’t budge much on. I hope for both of your sakes that she realises how hurtful it is and turns around soon.

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          4 months ago

          My mom came around. I was more aggressive than I would have liked in that conversation, and I’m blaming the testosterone!

          Hopefully by next week though I will be on t blockers!

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            4 months ago

            That’s lovely to hear, both that she came around and that you’ll be on blockers soon care I hope you two can avoid any major problems in the future. It’s awful when family fractures because of this stuff.