… Maybe I should post an ouji 🤔

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>Implying I wouldn’t wear every dress I’ve posted so far as everyday wear if I could afford it

All the dresses I’ve posted so far are from taobao brands, so they’re chinese indie brands. I tend to stick to taobao stuff since it’s more affordable for me rn so I check those sites more often. I’ll probably post an Alice and the Pirates, an Atelier Pierrot, or a Moi Même Moitié at some point though since I like those brands a lot too.

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Berets with bows are fucking adorable and I love them and aaaaaaaaaa. Like look at this, I love it.

Also you can be a weirdo like me and tie bows that you then attach to other things to wear. It can be fun!

I highly recommend the game night idea. Gaming with friends is usually a fun thing and it can help put a lot of the stress away while you do it. I also recommend going to gaming stores or stores for some other hobby that you like (provided they don’t have bigoted staff). These sorts of stores are usually a comfort place if you go often so they can really help you ease in the first few times. That’s how I first wore a skirt in public.

That’s okay! Just one piece at a time and eventually you can add a splash of this style into all of your outfits. Right now I kind of rely on my beret for my bows, since it can work with most of my outfits, and that adds a little bit of me into the outfit while still not being the focus. Just try to have fun with it, you’ll find things that work and you like pretty quick.

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Oh not Monster Hunter the series I just meant like vampire/monster hunter aesthetics like Bloodborne’s MC.

Lingxi, the same brand that made this dress, is really good at getting that style right. Like check this one, Blood Hunt. I’m not that into the angel wings that their model is rocking since I think this dress deserves a more grounded coord, but tbh it’s still sick. Luv me a good angel wing.

Honestly it just came with time. It’s hard to worry as much about it when you wear a princessy dress to a party and the only comments you get are positive, or when you wear cute bows basically every day in non-lolita outfits and get the same reaction. In the case of this sort of gothic, wearing a corset over all black would be an equivalent, or wearing a fancy skirt with an otherwise simple outfit. Etc… Etc…

Burgundy and maroon are just, the best colours honestly.

It would depend on your exact measurements I’m pretty sure. I can’t really be sure of the exacts though since I haven’t worn anything with this style of top yet, but I know the bottom half would just work since all the shaping there comes from the overskirt and petticoat. So it’s really all just about how the shoulder, chest, and waist are shaped. I’m inclined to assume that if you added a lace bodysuit to distract you might be able to pull it off without much breasts.

There are lots of gothics out there that don’t show off as much skin and should be doable for basically any body type though, there’s this one I’ve been considering making a post on which is this really cute gothic winter jacket but I’ve been putting it off since the model photos are less visually interesting on it. There’s another one that I really love and would be easy to pull off but I’m avoiding posting it because I genuinely want one for myself and it’s pretty low leftover stock rn. I’ll try to cover a few more gothics when I see some I like.

Ngl I basically wear lolita to every formal event and the only reason I haven’t worn it at school yet is because I don’t have any JSKs or skirts yet. As soon as I get some I am having a lolita day at least once a week. I have killed the part of my brain that goes ‘but what if someone judges me’ in favour of fancy dresses. Albeit more casual ones than a lot of the ones I post.

Also just wearing a lolita at home is nice I do it all the time when I’m having a rough week to feel better

And you’re welcome 💝

God if you want to talk about Bloodbornecore I know a few dresses that really lean into that gothic monster hunter schtick

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