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A good suggestion, but probably not something either of us would enjoy. We’re both very monogamous in all senses of the word. Thank you for the kind words, though!
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A good suggestion, but probably not something either of us would enjoy. We’re both very monogamous in all senses of the word. Thank you for the kind words, though!
That last part is especially helpful, thank you.
We’ve talked about it before, and she’s told me that I am the best sexual partner she has ever had. To her, she is very satisfied. I’m very giving in bed (it helps I enjoy going down), and foreplay is always a long part of it. Sometimes hours before we actually have sex. The issue is that I am not satisfied, and she is. I have never once reached orgasm with her, as she finds PIV sex painful due to my size and is generally not a giving partner. She has given me oral maybe 4 times total in 6 months. So I guess now that I think about it, it’s not just frequency but sexual satisfaction during the act as well, on my end.
Well, it has been like this since the beginning, and we’re both generally happy with stress-free lives. Easy, well-paying jobs, good family lives, etc. We met at work and I’m still very informed as to what happens there, and she has the absolute cushiest job on this planet, so definitely not work related. It might just be a different drive, unfortunately.
Well, I think it’s probably a little more than just sex drive, but that is a large part of it. It’s a once every 3 weeks vs. multiple times a week or more difference, which is hard for me. I guess you’re right. Just need to rip off the band-aid. Ugh.
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This is also the company that charges you to cancel your membership. Like, 60 bucks or something, sometimes more, to stop using their product. Horrible company. Bloatware, laggy software anyways.
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Fixed, my bad!