it always embarassed me growing up that our house was kind of dirty.
like i avoided bringing women over and shit because of the clutter.
i cant be the only one who grew up like this.
it always embarassed me growing up that our house was kind of dirty.
like i avoided bringing women over and shit because of the clutter.
i cant be the only one who grew up like this.
I mean, a little bit, but my house/room still managed to be cleaner than most of my peers. Mostly papers and books cluttering (I was, and still am, really hesitant to get rid of paper with stuff on it), not clothes, dust (for the most part), food, or dishes.
Funny that you mention women, the dirtiest room I’ve ever seen was a neighbors daughter, and the second dirtiest was the room of an AFAB non-binary during childhood (I knew them as a girl at the time, it’s great that younger people come out earlier these days).