Are there some practical things you can do at that point? Or is that the cue you should just leave?
Some context: It’s a Latin dance party. Meaning you dance with a partner. I do not have a very much experience with it (about 16 lessons, with half of them being repeats). I go there with some people I know, but am not all too well acquainted with.
Look, I’ll be honest with you: I don’t know how this is going to go. You’ll have plenty of opportunity to be a fly on the wall.
That said, you’ll have plenty of opportunity to put yourself out there, too. By asking for a dance, you’re communicating “I’m here to have fun”. Try to say that to as many people as you can and you’ll have a blast.
Also, Salsa is so dang easy to do the basic step. 90% of the Latin dances I’ve been to have been just doing the basic step for the whole song and looking at people around me for inspiration of moves to try.
You’re gonna do great.
Just fucking enjoy yourself - however you prefer to do so.
I’m an introvert and this is something I’ve learnt. If I’ve agreed to go to an event then the event will only be as fun as I let it be.
Remember this: no one cares if you’re not a good dancer. What matters is that you are having fun. It’s also okay to be a fly on the wall, it’s okay to move your feet slightly while hugging the wall. It’s okay to close your eyes and pretend you’re dancing in your bedroom in front of your mirror, it’s okay to walk away and take a break if it becomes too much. Don’t force it, just remember to ask yourself if you’re enjoying what you’re doing. A party is about having fun, not winning a contest of popularity or a dance-off (you can totally have a dance off if you want to though). Enjoy!
Ask people if they would like to touch your monkey.
Edit oops meant that as a reply to the op. Oh well, now it is the time on sprockets when we dance.
Chat to other wall flies/bar tender. Dance around in your own(I’ve seen guys/gals at the salsa bars jiggling round and swinging those hips, there aren’t always enough partners). Smile, have a good time. You don’t need others to make it a good time, put out a relaxed positive vibe and it’ll come back to you
Also spend some time just focusing on the music and enjoying it… everything else will follow.
I’ve said this a few times.
Parties are not my thing BUT if a friend asks me to go to a party with enough time (maybe 2 weeks), I can mentally prepare, schedule things out, and get my mind ready for a long, tiring night… But hey, with friends, which are people that generally add to your life. Now it’s time to give back and make them smile by sharing that tiring time together.
Also, hydrate strongly prior to that night, and don’t be hungry. Don’t let anything stupid bring your mood down. And relax and enjoy. You’ve scheduled that time for you to freely waste. Own it.
It’s about fun. You will find people who still like to dance with you, even if you think you are not a pro.
Also it is not about hard skill but about the level of fervency! If you dance with confidence, it will look even better
you should ask a partner “can you teach me how to dance?” if they say yes, you know they have the patience to dance at whatever level you’re comfortable with. and it’ll be a really good time
Back in my days we just took drugs
Meaning you dance with a partner. I do not have a very much experience with it (about 16 lessons, with half of them being repeats). I go there with some people I know, but am not all too well acquainted with.
- Assume you are the least experienced dancer of your acquaintance group.
- Select the second-least experienced dancer of that group. That person will accept because they’ll look good by comparison.
- Have fun just trying out the basics with them and laughing about it.
MOVE YOUR BUTT! 💃
Just dance like someone is shooting a revolver at your feet and you will do just fine.
I can’t believe no one has given this advice yet: https://piped.video/watch?v=vvmpc83nv4A
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