Romantic and platonic-friendship. Valuing voting on solutions, no one dominates X position (ex managing finances for the relationship due to gender) unjustly, mutual aiding each other etc.

If anyone has any ideas about how a good relationship would work in ancap, fascism or communism i’d be interested to hear your take.

Fascism = usually/never gender equality, and that’s gonna cause tension unless it’s same gender relationship. I could imagine lesbian homofascist being married to another lesbian homofascist would work, until one of them becomes ‘old’ first and becomes disabled.

Ancap = wouldn’t people be looking too intently for the next richest accessible person and drop previous relations? By good relationship, i don’t mean financially richest relationship haha.

Communist = in a polyarmorous relationship, the leader might become disliked and not step down?

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          Ostensibly its aim is, because it purports to be aiming to a ‘communism’. However, its idea of full communism is utopian to the extent that they believe it will take centuries to reach.
          Really, it’s just the state ideology of the USSR under Stalin, which wanted to call itself socialist/communist despite being state capitalist. It revises plenty of other stuff in Marxist theory as well, laying the groundwork for class collaborationist Marxism-Leninism-Maoism, Dengism, and whatever the fuck neo-Dengism is.

          I’d say that Lenin was the first to revise the typical marxist idea of communism though. In State & Rev he describes lower-phase communism as needing some kind of state apparatus to maintain it while communist society still suffered from some bourgeois ‘birthmarks’. This was something he’d added to the typical narrative, however. For Marx and Engels (as well as their friends and anarchist frenemies) communism was totally stateless, and the proletarian dictatorship was for them a state in the process of destroying itself as much as it was for destroying class society.