• Zagorath
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    Here’s a possibly-controversial take, but joining the army isn’t really even close to the best analogy for a male-dominated industry where you “sell your body”.

    Being a labourer is. Working in industries like construction, but not as a skilled tradesman. It doesn’t carry the same moral weight riley was going for though.

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      True, but it’s not just about labor.

      To join the US military you have to literally sign over your bodily autonomy to join. Once you do then they can pump you full of experimental drugs, or run whatever other ungodly experiments, all they want. I know someone who considered joining then backed out when this allegedly happened.

      Anyway, never heard of Riley before but seems nice. Hope she supports our troops and offers military discount for her OnlyFans.

    • CarbonScored [any]
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      Labourers sell their labour, but they effectively have bodily autonomy, they get to walk away if they want to. That’s largely not true for hired murderers.

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        Right, but you’re also not in mortal danger when you’re fitting pipes in Nebraska vs. Baghdad.

        Oh man, this is wrong.

        In. 2022, there were 500k plumbers in the US, I don’t have exact numbers for how many pipe fitters there were, but it’s a position that’s always in high demand, safe to say that very few of that 500k number are pipe fitters, less than a quarter. So let’s say 100k pipe fitters which is honestly, probably generous.

        There were 70 fatal accidents involving pipe fitters. Not injuries, fatal accidents only. That is a ratio of .0006.

        The US military boasted 1.3 million members that year, and 270 fatal accidents, and 0 to enemy action. A ratio of .0002.

        You are 2/3rd less likely to die in the armed forces then you are pipe fitting.

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          That’s interesting, but it would be perhaps more interesting to compare the yearly average accross a longer time frame. Also didn’t a bunch of people get lung cancer and die as a result of burn pits? I’m sure people died years later from exposure to other hazards too, not to mention how many people commit suicide after.

          Also this isn’t to say pipe fitting isn’t a dangerous job, I am just interested how the statistics would look over a longer time frame and with consideration of deaths that occur after service, but still as a result.

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            So there’s a few things happening here that are causing industrial numbers to surpass American military rates of injury.

            We are not actively in conflict with any other nation, so being in the military is no more dangerous than any industrial occupation because of conflict.

            The military is, generally, safer than any one occupation, but the military is also a monolith. Saying it’s safer in the military is kind of like saying office jobs in the US are more dangerous than pipe fitting. You’re essentially comparing numerous disparate positions to one type of work, and that skews your results. It would be more accurate to compare rates of incidents in say, front line infantrymen to any particular other field.

            It’s also worth pointing out that the military has it’s own plumbers, and they do their own pipe fitting. Statistics on the rates of injury there are a little harder to come by.

            But more to the specific points you mentioned: yes, and that’s not the first time the military has accidently killed or seriously injured it’s own people. These incidents happen in civilian world too and arguably, more frequently. The US industrial labor pool is 10 times the size of the military, and negligent safety hazards come up every year. Rates of suicide are also lower in the military than in the general population, and a variety of factors contribute to that.

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            First of all, KIA MIA for 2022 is 0, I did add them.

            People who later die due to injury is also included, for both metrics. That’s why these numbers are almost 2 years old.

            What specifically was excluded were those who died to illness or self inflicted wounds.

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                I picked the most recent year for which information is available, I gathered the summary information from statistics that others had already done.

                These reports are prepared yearly, I’m not sure what you expect. It’s literally how statistics are done. It’s an industrial standard. Do you expect that people only work for 1 year out of their lives while everyone in the military is stuck there for 8?

                I dunno man it sounds like you’re just being dense on purpose because you’ve run out of room to argue.

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        True, you’re far more likely to die working menial laborer jobs than you are in the military.

        Laborers are providing direct goods to the people they supply too. The military is far more intangible with prevention being the key factor for it’s expense.

        In the United States, there were far more occupational injury deaths among men than women. In 2020, there were 4,377 male occupational injury deaths in the United States, compared to 387 deaths among women.

        https://www.statista.com/statistics/187127/number-of-occupational-injury-deaths-in-the-us-by-gender-since-2003/

        9 military people die from hostile action in 2020. 317/1017 in accidents. 190 illness. 406 suicide.

        https://dcas.dmdc.osd.mil/dcas/app/summaryData/deaths/byYearManner

        I highly doubt they consider suicide for occupational hazards too which is strange in hindsight considering the military accounts for it now. One of the few things they do ahead of the woke curve lol. First responders as well.

        So in reality you’d need to remove both suicide and illness from the military’s numbers to equal laborers.

        363 died in the military then vs 4,774.

        Even hostile deaths… 9 in hostile action and 37 homicides… Meanwhile there were 392 workplace homicides. 37,060 nonfatal intentional injuries.

        https://www.bls.gov/opub/ted/2022/workplace-violence-homicides-and-nonfatal-intentional-injuries-by-another-person-in-2020.htm

    • Adkml [he/him]
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      I mean the joke in the military is literally you can’t kill yourself because it’s destruction of government property.

      I agree with the point but you can tell your boss to fuck off and stop being a laborer whereas your ass gets thrown in prison if you decide you don’t want somebody else fully in control of what you eat when you sleep where you live and who you kill.

      Both are selling your body but one of them you can’t decide to stop selling it.

    • usernamesaredifficul [he/him]
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      177 months ago

      Any form of physical labour is selling your body sex work is selling your right to refuse sexual consent. I think that makes it a worse situation for the person doing the sex work than other work

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        If you are doing only fans or similar how are you not consenting? It’s fully on your terms.

        I doubt most people in the military would consent to getting their dick blown off by a mine if given the opportunity.

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            There’s a reason why people who join the U.S. military are disproportionately poor.

            You’re describing a problem that is common across “industries” as if it were unique to sex work, when it’s not.

            It’s unreasonable to posit that somehow Onlyfans models have less bodily autonomy or more coercion than members of the U.S. (and probably any other) military.

            I encourage you to take some time to interrogate why you were so easily able to make this leap of logic, because to me it seems (consciously or not) motivated by moralized “disgust” of sex work rather than rational consideration.

              • @Jordan_U@lemmy.ml
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                You keep on making points that I know you must know don’t apply to capitalism in practice.

                There are so many jobs that don’t NEED to exist, and yet they do. And chances are that you’ll be coerced into doing at least one of those jobs in your life, especially if you’re poor.

                I guess I am also coming at things from the practical perspective of:

                There will always be sex workers. What can we do in practice to keep them safe?

                “Solutions” based on moralizing sex work as inherently “bad” end up being things like:

                Making directly providing sexual services illegal, which is “intended” to stop “sex trafficking” and punish “pimps” but in reality forces transactions underground and in the dark, facilitating sex trafficking and leading to victims being harassed and prosecuted far more than perpetrators.

                Sex workers of all kinds want sexual services decriminalized because they understand that criminalization makes everyone less safe:

                Providers of sexual services need to advertise on shady websites and meet in non-public spaces, rather than openly using Craigslist on their own terms. Is Craigslist a good example of a safety-focused platform for sexual services? Absolutely not! But providers of sexual services were much safer before Craigslist cracked down than they are, by far. Police regularly harass street workers, very much including sexual assault.

                Clients risk getting arrested, and are similarly forced into more dangerous situations.

                All people, especially poor and marginalized women, are less safe. The large underground market for sex work makes it much easier for humans to be trafficked. Children sexually abused (child sexual abuse absolutely must be criminalized, and CSAM a long with it). Undocumented immigrants trafficked for sex work, as well as non-sex work.

                I believe that the moralization and criminalization of sex work is absolutely fundamental to institutions like the Catholic Church being able to facilitate the sexual abuse / rape of so many children, for so long. And it’s not like its over, especially in fundamentalist Christian churches but also in all major institutions and parts of our society.

                So, I mostly care about the unique moralization and criminalization of sex work because I regularly listen to sex workers themselves talking about what needs to change to make them, and everyone else, safer.

                And they regularly use analogies to other physical and emotional labor.

                I’m not sure that I can defend that notion to you articulately, but I also very much don’t care.

                I support listening to and learning from marginalized people. I support the notion that marginalized people generally know what is best for them better than the random old white dudes that declare themselves to be experts without any real connection to, or respect for, those communities.

                I know that policies decisions led by those that are most vulnerable almost always end up helping everyone else too.

        • usernamesaredifficul [he/him]
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          it’s not fully on your terms because if you refuse to provide sexual content for the only fans subscribers you stop getting paid which means that with the coercion of the market you stop having full and uncoerced control over your ability to refuse to give sexual consent to sharing provocative images of yourself

            • usernamesaredifficul [he/him]
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              207 months ago

              yes but your right to refuse to consent type out emails, or stack boxes is less intimate and personal than your control over your sexual consent

              it is for example perfectly socially acceptable to pressurize and even insist that people do various chores which would be deeply immoral in the case of sexual consent. For example your roommate could insist that as a condition of your living arrangement you have to clean the house (which is a bodily autonomy sacrifice as you have to use your body to work potentially against what you want) but they would be out of bounds if they insisted you do sexual favours for them

              • @Jordan_U@lemmy.ml
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                Onlyfans models generally have the option to apply for a job at McDonald’s instead.*

                People working for the military generally do not.

                * Ok, there’s actually more nuance here because a large percentage of sex workers are disabled, and lack of accessibility and general ableism prevents them from working most other jobs. But while that’s important to understand, it’s a different discussion.

              • @Mnemnosyne@sh.itjust.works
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                While this is currently true, there isn’t any logic in one of these activities being treated significantly differently than the other, except where risks are concerned. If the sexual favors entail no additional risk (for instance, if they do not involve bodily contact, but merely putting in a show) then although society treats them differently, I would argue it shouldn’t.

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        I think if you look at it that way, you could also say working for the military is selling your right to a safe workplace. Like, a lot of other jobs (including sex work) can be dangerous, and often are due to a lack of care from those in power. But the military is necessarily dangerous by its very nature.

      • @funkless_eck@sh.itjust.works
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        you still have consent during sex work.

        I’d also add that even desk jobs are selling your body. All labor is. The brain and fingers are part of the body.

    • @CrushKillDestroySwag@hexbear.net
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      Doing “unskilled labor” is at the very least creating something. Even if that thing is socially useless like a Starbucks location that’s across the street from another Starbucks location, that’s a better outcome than bombing or shooting something.

      • Zagorath
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        I wasn’t interested in making any value judgments. Simply in coming up with what job is the purest expression of “selling your body”.

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    What I hate with this is that is defines that the army itself is good or bad. But in reality it is what it is used for. If its actually used for defence, then it’s very honorable. When it’s used as a tool to exploit resources to the rich, (aka generally being the aggressor), it’s not.

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                Nah, most people i disagree with are just people I disagree with.

                The people who want to try and tell me what to do like they have authority to do so are Tankies.

                Y’know that term for authoritarians who want to force people to do things regardless of what the ordinary person wants to do.

                So… You, you tankie McTankerson.

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                Also I have no problems with jews or communists.

                Only authoritarians like the rest of that list except shill.

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                  Because you get to a communist society with thoughts and prayers…

                  This is you… “Oh no dont infiltrate and dismantle our preferred system of production with the forces of reaction… or ill have to write a strongly worded letter as I wouldn’t want tobe authoritarian.”

    • ShimmeringKoi [comrade/them]
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      Hey, im not trying to be rude or anything I just wanna quickly say that honor is a fiction typically used by the rich and powerful to manipulate the young and well-meaning into becoming fucked up stormtroopers for capital.

      • @Urist@lemmy.ml
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        In modern context, sure. In a wider anthropological historic context, no. My understanding of honor as a social concept, though I do not have proper academic sources to back this, is that it works in lieu of a central force of government enforcing laws and common rule. I.e. non centralized governance such as that of say the Norse people of old, had very strong etiquette of honor, the lack of which implied social status that would be worse to the one living than them dying. That meant weird things like a story of a man who robbed a house, realized they were doing something dishonorable (read illegal), went back and challenged the man who owned the house, killed them in combat and then stole their stuff. Just like laws it imposes rules on people, in this weird case murder in combat is better than theft, but still a rule. I would argue this notion of honor has existed across different societies for a long time, due to general absence of centralized governance, and has in modern times, relatively speaking on an anthropological timeline, been adopted and exploited by centralized powers to further control the populace, in the very real way you talk about.

    • @Bassword@hexbear.net
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      Yeah peaceful militaries like Korea’s or China’s or Cuba’s are ok. Anyone joining the US military though if just in it for the war crimes.

      • @Habahnow@sh.itjust.works
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        I feel your answer lacks any sort of nuance. People join the military for financial reasons as well. Broke as fuck and need somewhere to stay, get food and possibly get an education or career? Military. Almost doesn’t matter your background, you can probably get in and stay as much as you like. The US system makes the military a good back up option for the poor. I don’t like how the US uses our military, but i also understand that those in there aren’t necessarily happy with their options either. If there existed a alternative system like the military (work, pay, food, housing, education, career), people would probably join that over risking dying or having to kill people.

        • @Urist@lemmy.ml
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          That is the issue with hating the troops proles doing the fighting. Sometimes they might commit war crimes, but usually there is someone of a higher social strata coercing them into the role, which although doesn’t relieve them of responsibility, is important context.

      • @Azzu@lemm.ee
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        I wouldn’t call North Korea firing missiles over other sovereign countries very peaceful. As well as China doing troop exercises that obviously prepare for the invasion of Taiwan. I’m sure there are more examples.

        • @Bassword@hexbear.net
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          The DPRK had literally never been to war outside its territory; it’s not a dove but at least it hasn’t invaded multiple sovereign countries like its southern cousin.

          China does troop exercises like every single other country in the world.

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            I mean as long as you consider South Korea part of their territory, sure. There was though the Korean War, where North Korea invaded South Korea. Of course it’s not on the same level as South Korea, but I would imagine that’s more because they literally can’t, they have no resources for it, not because they’re amazingly peaceful people.

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              The north didn’t invade the south though, no Koreans agreed that the US supported parallel was a permanent division of the country, both North and South fully intended to create a united Korea. Tens of thousands of Koreans were already dead from purges and suppression of uprisings in the south when the operation started. It was literally an ongoing civil war that had momentarily frozen.

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                I’m not sure on what information you base this claim, but as far as I know the 38th parallel was agreed upon because both the udssr and the US wanted total occupation of Korea for themselves, but they both wanted to potentially avoid an armed conflict so tried a compromise.

                Then the north korean part, supported by China and unofficially by the soviet union, invaded the south to establish total control.

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                  No North Korea claims descend from the People’s Republic of Korea and like in Germany, the US and UDSSR agreed upon an eventual neutral zone. The North invaded the South after the US sponsored regime began killing socialist uprisings, essentially protecting its citizens.

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        • booty [he/him]
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          Are you talking about that time they launched a missile over the least populated possible part of Japan as part of a test? What are they supposed to do, just not advance their tech? They’re surrounded, they’ve got to launch them over somebody and they did it the safest way they could.

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            No, obviously perfectly fine. They are literally doing exercises for a potential invasion to Taiwan though, which is a difference.

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              You can’t invade your own territory. By Chinese and Taiwanese law, internationally recognized by the UN (and even the US, as asserted by Blinken the last time he was in China to pretend to be sorry), Taiwan is Chinese territory.

    • @telllos@lemmy.world
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      I mean, even for defence. Your settling, an argument, the rich and powerful people above you are having. You’re settling it with your life.

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        If you think your side is right and you’re ready to die fighting then who is anyone else to say that you, the tool, is wrong?

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      Lol can’t think of a single western country that’s had an “honorable” war post 1945. The US army is unequivocally bad

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        In general I think you are right, but I was also under the impression that the NATO intervention in Bosnia helped prevent ethnic cleansing, which if true is a honorable thing.

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      See, that’s an easy question to answer: Did you, or whoever, join the military while the US, or your country, was being attacked?

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        If you wait til you are attacked, you may not be trained or ready enough to actually defend your country from the attack. You can still join in times of peace with intentions of defense for the future, helping with disaster relief, and providing international aid.

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    I would never compare, being a sex worker is obviously incredibly more honorable

    But…saying that something is more honorable than something else is comparing them?

    EDIT: to be clear, her point is absolutely valid. This isn’t (to misquote a replier) “But I must find way for sex lady be dumb”. Her actual point is spot-on. This particular linguistic evolution just feels weird to me - feels like the new “literally”.

  • @doggle@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    How much Kool aid do you need to drink to think a soldiers job is “saving people”? Except for medics that’s pretty much the opposite of the point.

    • @PieMePlenty@lemmy.world
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      I thought all American soldiers died far away from home so Americans can bake apple pie and sleep on red white and blue bed sheets.

  • @Aria
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    You fucked hearted the guy saying ‘fighting for your country’ equals saving people?! If you’re killing people for profit, you are just a murderer. Even if it’s someone else’s profit.

    • Adkml [he/him]
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      Yea even the most doughy eyed liberal would have a hard time arguing that anybody in the military is “saving” anyone.

      They even normally stop at something about defending the homeland (from goat farmers who have never left their province half a world away)

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    Found out my work is getting a new chemical. The chemical is so volatile that if it splashes on you, it will potentially burn you into nothing.

    I am fodder for the machines of industry.

  • @masquenox@lemmy.world
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    If you work for a living, you’re a prostitute - you’re selling your physical and mental health just to survive no different than sex workers.

    The term prostitute literally translates to “to offer up for sale” - and, guess what, that pretty much describes the entire working class.

  • @Rambi@lemm.ee
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    That guy looks exactly like what you would expect someone saying that to look like

  • UlyssesT [he/him]
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    Brobro having a microscope emoji is trying so hard to be both a boot brobro and a STEM science bro. cringe

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      I am confused, do you believe STEM science bro to be a real thing or do you project this on the 🔬-man? Either way, I am concerned if people think or there really are “STEM science broos” out there.

      • UlyssesT [he/him]
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        do you believe STEM science bro to be a real thing

        I don’t have to believe it. I’ve experienced and lived it for decades both in college and outside of it in the internet world among people that didn’t just have STEM career tracks but also turned that identity into a sense of unexamined superiority over other people.

        I am concerned if people think or there really are “STEM science broos” out there.

        They exist and live around a lot of them. They thought Andrew Yang had great ideas because he had “MATH” on his hat and seriously believe Elon Musk is on track to personally save the world.

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          Don’t know your experience, but that is exactly why we have business school where I am from. To have a place to put those people. In all seriousness, the people I have met in my time studying math for many years now are really great progressive people, the stark opposite to what you have described. I am talking about every single one I have met that kept going past the first year.

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            Most of the worst “I fucking love science” spouting STEMbro types I knew tended to be the TE part of it, and often had outright hostility toward “soft” sciences (including biology for some reason) and “too theoretical and not useful” maths. To summarize, if it wasn’t in high demand in the capitalistic status quo and wasn’t directly focused on gathering resources or producing a product, they mocked it.

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              Some of those exist, and there is a meme about who shits on who in science community going something like this: math > physics > engineering, which is somewhat true. Again, what you are talking about sounds to me like a business school in STEM suit rather than a university focused on basic research.

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                sounds to me like a business school in STEM suit

                The people I roomed and went to class with were firmly in the TE categories but did move on to Silicon Valley startups after graduating.

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      According to my ex, who prides herself to be a social worker and a conflict solver, relationships are built solely on sex, not on interpersonal connections. But then again, she also thinks that you shouldn’t ever apologize because it shows a lack of self-esteem, called the police on her best friend because she was jealous of her hooking up while she didn’t and regularly posts “memes” about how terrible everyone else is on Facebook. Maybe she’s just a nutcase.

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        That may just be her, and I kinda feel bad for her. That sounds like a lot of maladjustment and projection. My friends say they had some regulars who’d start the sessions telling them about their lives and showing them pictures of their kids. Touch and validation can be a form of medicine. Everyone needs to feel wanted. We are social creatures. Incels are one example of those starved from such things.