• k_o_t@lemmy.ml
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      3 years ago

      can someone pls explain why so much importance is put into pronouns? imo it puts additional emphasis on gender when all of us could benefit a lot from deemphasizing it tbh

      • AgreeableLandscape@lemmy.mlM
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        3 years ago

        You can add preferred pronouns in your display name. Most people do something like “Preferred Username (pronouns)”. You can also put it in your user bio, like I did.

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          The first idea is how it is done in AP part of the fediverse, however, could not work very well with quite long names.

          The second idea has the issue of visibility.

          In addition, there is a set of rules mostly set when organizing data in DBs. These are called “Normalization”. A field for usernames is no place for it but its own one in the user table and the reasons are the same why “Normalization” exists.