I’ve been single for 5 years now, and not really in any rush to “settle down” or “find the one”, but I’ve been on a numerous dates, have dated several people for a month of two, but it always seem to fall apart one way or another.
I’m not ugly, and think I’m pretty fun to be around/positive, funny, maybe a bit eccentric, but nothing too bad by any means.
I have no idea why I struggle with dating and maintaining relationships, so I wanted to know if there was any way how I can see what it’s like dating me from the opposite perspective?
A simple solution is to just start a journal. Every night you can write a little bit about your own day, and a little bit about your partner’s day. See how they overlap and how much good you are doing for each other. Once you’ve had this for a while, read back through and look for problem areas or things you’re already good at.