I’ve been single for 5 years now, and not really in any rush to “settle down” or “find the one”, but I’ve been on a numerous dates, have dated several people for a month of two, but it always seem to fall apart one way or another.

I’m not ugly, and think I’m pretty fun to be around/positive, funny, maybe a bit eccentric, but nothing too bad by any means.

I have no idea why I struggle with dating and maintaining relationships, so I wanted to know if there was any way how I can see what it’s like dating me from the opposite perspective?

  • manapropos@lemmy.basedcount.com
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    9 months ago

    Do yourself a favor if possible and go to another country. I grew up in the US and I was hopeless. I always had to settle and I was very unhappy. Even if you can’t just up and move, at least vacation to somewhere in Latin America or somewhere with a better, more extroverted culture for a couple of weeks. You’ll meet so many people, truly live, and gain a lot of confidence. I moved two years ago and I’m about to get married

    Edit: Quick side note, try Ritalin with alcohol. With that combo, you’ll make Casanova look like McLovin. Just remember to drink plenty of water