• Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      16
      arrow-down
      9
      ·
      1 year ago

      Jesus. At this point can we just say LGBTO and have the O mean Others? It’s getting cringy af, and I’m saying that as a trans person.

      • macracanthorhynchus@mander.xyz
        link
        fedilink
        English
        arrow-up
        21
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        1 year ago

        That was the whole point of the “Q”! In fact, we could ditch the LGBT and just stick with a fully inclusive “Queer”.

        • Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          3
          ·
          1 year ago

          I’d love if we could get to a place where the Q encompasses all of the identities. As it stands, it feels like Queer has taken on an identity of its own.

          • SCB@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            2
            ·
            1 year ago

            I’d love to get to a place where there is no LGBTQ+ community at all. That’s what actually winning looks like.

      • n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        3
        arrow-down
        8
        ·
        1 year ago

        Don’t worry there are only 107 recognized genders. I’d like to hear any politician throw that one around

        • Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          1
          ·
          1 year ago

          Why can’t those 107 genders fall under T for trans? I feel old for saying this, but if you don’t identify with your birth gender then doesn’t that make a person trans? Why do they need a extra letter on LGBT for it?

          • n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            2
            arrow-down
            4
            ·
            1 year ago

            I don’t know, I don’t subscribe to any of that shit. I don’t care whatya do in your personal life but if you come up to me and look like a guy, I’m gonna say what up dude. You get offended by that ya can GFY lol

            • Concetta@lemmy.blahaj.zone
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              2
              arrow-down
              1
              ·
              1 year ago

              So you’re a transhpobe? At least just say you’re a transphobic person, it’s a lot easier than typing in that cringy comment.

              • n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                1
                ·
                edit-2
                1 year ago

                No, I couldn’t give a shit what you do in your life. I’m not changing for anyone, I am me. If you don’t like it, go elsewhere. If that’s transphobic, sure what ever. I really don’t care because it doesn’t affect my life

                • Concetta@lemmy.blahaj.zone
                  link
                  fedilink
                  arrow-up
                  1
                  ·
                  1 year ago

                  But your actions affect others, you being unwilling to properly gender a person means that others hate will reach them easier. Just because you aren’t being affected doesn’t mean you can’t help things improve. And if you aren’t willing to gender somebody properly, what did you think that made you before? It’s simply hateful.

                • Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone
                  link
                  fedilink
                  arrow-up
                  1
                  arrow-down
                  1
                  ·
                  1 year ago

                  So if the CEO of the company you worked for introduced himself with male pronouns but you thought he looked feminine, you’d call him by female pronouns? Or if you got pulled over by a female officer but she looked masculine to you, you’d call her “Sir”? Yikes. It sounds to me like you just like having a shitty excuse to disrespect people.

                  • n3m37h@lemmy.dbzer0.com
                    link
                    fedilink
                    arrow-up
                    1
                    ·
                    1 year ago

                    Jesus fuck you are stupid. I only acknowledge 2 genders. Male and female.

                    I am not disrespectful in any way unless you do something stupid like interrupt me to let me know your bullshit ideology about genders.

                    You and the people in your life can do that. Don’t force your moronic ideology down my throat.

                    That’s it. It’s not hard.

                    I don’t care if you love dick or vagina or neither, you do you.

                    Get that ideology through your thick skull and STFU about it when in public, unless you’re with people you know, then do it with them and no one else.

      • AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        13
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        edit-2
        1 year ago

        It’s a Native American term that has been in use for thousands of years longer than whatever newbie civilization your ancestors came from.