If you’re a Nevernude and you go to the Nevernude congress, wouldn’t you also accept people who aren’t Nevernudes, if they adhere to your rules and don’t say anything against Nevernudes?
In my opinion it would certainly be better to be inclusive like that than to have people who aren’t Nevernudes pose as Nevernudes to be able to listen in.
It’s always like “spot the fed” or “Among Us”, minorities always want to expose the wolves in sheep’s clothing, even if they did never eat any sheep. Why is that?
Maybe because the purpose of such communities isn’t outreach, but meant for people with something in common to exchange experiences, seek validation and find comfort, and/or solidarity. Something that might otherwise be lacking in their every day life. They might not wish to spend time and energy explaining these things to people who are different, which they may find themselves doing too much already.