• waz@feddit.uk
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    18 days ago

    What meal is this? The middle of the day? Or the one after work/school? Because I feel it’s incorrect for the east/west split in the south.

    • Lunch in the middle of the day
    • Tea after school - when you’re a kid
    • Dinner after work - as a grownup
    • Supper is optional and before bed. (Bad for you)

    Location: new forest/hants.

    • rjek@feddit.uk
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      18 days ago

      I’m in Manchester and your interpretation is 100% correct. Although… I did grow up in Hythe.

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      18 days ago

      They asked multiple people but couldn’t understand a word they were saying

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          18 days ago

          Ironically at least some of the Highland accents are often cited as the clearest English and the easiest to understand for non-native speakers.

          I went to Madagascar 20 years ago. I turned on the radio in my cabin and it was tuned to BBC World Service. It was a bit of a trip hearing another tuechter’s voice in the south Malagasy desert.

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      No wonder Orkney and Shetland have left altogether. Maybe they moved back in with Norway

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      18 days ago

      As a sometimes highlander: dinner far more common, but tea is the same thing

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      18 days ago

      We just can’t afford the added transport costs they plop on everything. Everyone knows 300 miles is such a ridiculously long and insurmountable distance.

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        17 days ago

        Not sure about that. I know a couple of Scottish guys who walked 1000 miles. Alright, it took them 2 stints but if they did that, then 300 shouldn’t be impossible at all, particularly not with a car.

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    18 days ago

    Yes. These all have different meanings to me.

    Supper is a meal typically served in the evening, it’s the last meal of the day, but it’s informal.

    Dinner is more formal, an afternoon meal with social elements and/or formality. It can be the last meal but doesn’t have to be.

    Tea is an afternoon snack, typically served with tea, hence the name. Tea might be skipped if you have an early dinner.

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    18 days ago

    In primary school in the 90s, we’d call lunch dinner (dinner time, dinner money, school dinners) but if you brought your own food it was packed lunch. But at home, we’d say dinner for the evening meal.

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    18 days ago

    Tea is a delicious hot drink, I have a little milk in mine. Breakfast is the first meal of the day after getting up. Lunch is a midday meal. Afternoon tea is a posh cup of tea, with a pot, and some snacks like scones, cakes and finger sandwiches. Dinner is an evening main meal Supper is a late evening snack.

    I’m from the north west.

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      18 days ago

      me: tea

      ex-gf: supper

      her parents were born in India (not Indian. “British”. Servants, boarding school, all that shit)

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    18 days ago

    I grew up saying ‘Tea’ for the evening meal but changed to ‘Dinner’ at university - just to fit in.

    When talking with my parents though, I still say Tea.

    It very much does come down I think to what was historically the main meal of the day - which makes this both a regional divide, and a class divide.

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    18 days ago

    Breakfast Dinner Tea Supper (optional)

    My test is what you called the school staff who served your midday meal. Was it a “dinner lady” or “lunch lady”?!

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    18 days ago

    IIRC this is a class divide indicator. The fact that class maps well onto geography is just correlation.

    Middle class has breakfast, lunch, and dinner.

    Working class has breakfast, dinner, and tea.

    Supper is an outlier and definitely more unusual. In my experience it usually indicates a smaller evening meal.

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      18 days ago

      southern parents who lived for some time in the north, evening meal was still dinner but came with the offer of ‘sauce or owt?’ pronounced something like saucer aaht

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      https://www.etymonline.com/word/supper

      Formerly, the last of the three meals of the day (breakfast, dinner, and supper); now applied to the last substantial meal of the day when dinner is taken in the middle of the day, or to a late meal following an early evening dinner. Supper is usually a less formal meal than late dinner.

      My guess would be food after a late work shift, so probably working class

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        18 days ago

        if you call dinner the main meal of the day, the earlier you start work, the earlier you’ll have it

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      18 days ago

      Lunch is the main meal. Breakfast is a rushed coffee at best. Dinner is an unenthusiastic munch that takes place anytime between 4-11pm