Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 11 months agoWhat's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one?message-squaremessage-square156fedilinkarrow-up1246arrow-down112
arrow-up1234arrow-down1message-squareWhat's not a sign someone's an asshole, but is often misinterpreted as one?Weirdbeardgame@lemmy.ml to Asklemmy@lemmy.ml · 11 months agomessage-square156fedilink
minus-squareCarlos Solís@communities.azkware.netlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up45arrow-down1·11 months agoUnrequested advice. Sometimes it is warranted after all.
minus-squareAggressivelyPassive@feddit.delinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up22·11 months agoAnd some people genuinely want to help, without implying the other person is stupid, weak, incompetent either.
minus-squareSerpardum@lemmyonline.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up10arrow-down2·11 months agoUnrequested advice is always taken for criticism. Don’t do it. Ask first. “May I give you fome advice?”
minus-squarerichieadler@lemmy.myserv.onelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up3arrow-down2·11 months agoAnd if they say “no”, listen.
minus-squareSapphicFemme@lib.lgbtlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·11 months agoVery rare in ny experience :(
minus-squareSapphicFemme@lib.lgbtlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up2·11 months agoIt’s worse after you vent to someone and they give you it. Especially when it was unwanted.
Unrequested advice. Sometimes it is warranted after all.
And some people genuinely want to help, without implying the other person is stupid, weak, incompetent either.
Unrequested advice is always taken for criticism. Don’t do it. Ask first. “May I give you fome advice?”
And if they say “no”, listen.
Very rare in ny experience :(
It’s worse after you vent to someone and they give you it. Especially when it was unwanted.