Just as the Title says, i really suck at buuilding conversation, i’ve had a crush on this girl for 2 years now and i was talking with her (5 minutes ago, she’s also a communist and is awesome) and i literally ran away after 5 minutes because i’ve felt like i’ve had nothing better to say. Fuck my life, did make her agree to watch Doctor Who and One Piece together though ( Not a date, just really want to be friends with her and not ruin this friendship at all). Anyway, what am i supposed to do to get better at holding conversations though ??

  • OzmanthiusOP
    7·
    3 days ago

    Sorry if this is obvious stuff, I’m neurodivergent and some of these things don’t come naturally to me

    Nah, thanks for the advice, i am not neurodivergent (i dont know tbh) but idk when but sometime after or during covid ive lost all of my social skills and it’s been hard since and also thanks for being kind

    • ratboy [they/them]@hexbear.netEnglish
      4·
      3 days ago

      Ah, yeah I relate to that a lot, I used to go out a lot and just deal with the anxiety but now I barely go out at all lol. The first couple of years really screwed a lot of us up, I think. The more you chat with her the easier it’ll be, you got this!