The woman is Pamela Paul. She used to be married to Bedbug.
Pamela Paul (born 1971 or 1972) is an American journalist, correspondent, editor, and author. Since 2022, she has been a columnist for The New York Times. From 2013 to 2022, she was the editor of The New York Times Book Review, where her role expanded to oversee all New York Times book coverage including the staff critics and publishing news.
Gentleman’s Gazette: Why you should absolutely avoid dressing like these men.