Schwim Dandy

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Cake day: March 28th, 2024

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  • I’m so sorry to hear of your continued struggles. I hope you and your partner recover more quickly and completely than you did last time.

    Are you open to the possibility of separating yourself from these problematic family members? I know some people feel very strongly about “familial bond” but I’ve always held the belief that nobody should get extra points for sharing genes. If a person is not a person I gain anything from, I don’t feel the need to maintain contact with them.






  • Schwim Dandy@lemm.eetomemes@hexbear.netchat is this real??
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    1 month ago

    This is interesting but to make sure I’m understanding it correctly, does the last paragraph posit that the people that are representative of the shitpost cliches actually understand and are complicit in the “wink-wink” nature of the lies being passed off as legitimate information because they understand that they benefit from the goal achieved?

    Like, this guy is aware of the completely baseless and disingenuous nature of their fearless god/leader and is just putting on a show?









  • Can I ask why you can’t let them talk their nonsense? I know you don’t think you can change them so if you choose to hang out with them, why can’t you just let them be them? I’m not telling you that you should hang out with them, just that joining in on their discussion is a zero sum game.

    I chose not to interact with family any longer and haven’t spoken to any of them in years. Not out of anger or spite but simply because none of us were getting anything positive from the relationship.



  • Regarding terrible people, I’ve learned throughout my life three tenets:

    1. There are some truly terrible people.
    2. I can’t make them less terrible.
    3. The less I use social networks, the less terrible people I know about.

    I don’t mean it flippantly. The internet made it too easy for me to have access to every terrible event and person in existence and that knowledge didn’t benefit me in any way. I still use it to find cool stuff and people but I view certain repositories of data off-limits personally.