Is there an instance which does not block any other instance and isn’t blocked by any instance?
I would like to decide myself who I block and who not.
I am currently on lemmy.ml and I noticed they block quite a few instances (https://lemmy.ml/instances).
I would like to make this decision by myself.
The short answer is that if you want to make that decision yourself, you’ll have to start your own instance. There’s a lot of unsavory things on the fediverse that most of us don’t want anything to do with.
that’s the answer right here. Full control requires full effort.