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  • Kras Mazov
    23·
    11 days ago

    Recently talked with my psychologist about the possibility of me being trans. I’m still not sure what exactly I am, but this is something that have been on my mind for the last 4 years at least.

    I was very anxious and couldn’t really verbalize it so I wrote it down for her, but I’m glad I had the courage to do it. ☺️

    • Yor [she/her]@hexbear.netEnglish
      17·
      11 days ago

      that’s a lot of courage to have too. congrats on the first step of wherever this period of discovery takes you cat-trans

    • WalrusDragonOnABike [they/them]@lemmy.today
      5·
      10 days ago

      Congrats! Is this the first person you’ve told?

      I’m still not sure what exactly I am You are you! The labels are all just oversimplifications anyways. :) Do you have any plans to make any changes?

      I was very anxious and couldn’t really verbalize it so I wrote it down for her,

      I probably should just switch to a non-verbal method to come out to my family. Cuz verbal methods seem really hard.

      • Kras Mazov
        4·
        10 days ago

        Congrats! Is this the first person you’ve told?

        Thank you!! And yes, she’s the first person I told about it.

        You are you! The labels are all just oversimplifications anyways. :) Do you have any plans to make any changes?

        I do want to, like I want to act more feminine for example, but I’m too shy and too afraid/anxious to do so right now, so it’s probably take some time before I start showing my true self.

        I probably should just switch to a non-verbal method to come out to my family. Cuz verbal methods seem really hard.

        It’s way easier that way. I mean, still difficult, but definitely more maneageble. I do hope it goes well for you ☺️