BIGGER AND MORE PRIDEFUL THAN EVER BEFORE trans-ferret trans-hydra

  • BountifulEggnog [they/them]@hexbear.net
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    5 days ago

    Obviously I don’t care why anyone else transitions.

    But personally, I wouldn’t do it if I was comfortable in my own skin. If I didn’t feel like I hated being a guy/in a guy’s body I wouldn’t transition. (if I’m answering that question right? I feel like I’m missing something. Honestly I don’t know why someone would transition if they weren’t feeling dysphoria, even if that’s a thing I’ve vaguely heard of)

    • Thallo [she/her, he/him]@hexbear.net
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      5 days ago

      It’s all good. Sorry if I came off cold. I didn’t mean it that way.

      Just like a lot of people transition because of dysphoria, there are those who transition because of euphoria. They don’t hate their current body or gender, but they like another one better.

    • Honestly I don’t know why someone would transition if they weren’t feeling dysphoria, even if that’s a thing I’ve vaguely heard of)

      Sometimes it just seems like a difference in how people use “dysphoria”. Some people feel their feelings are not severe enough to count (so… impostor syndrome?). Not saying that’s always the case - I’m sure some people are cool enough to just transition because they want to despite social pressures otherwise. Either way, its not a good idea to define identities based partly on minimum levels of suffering or use that to gatekeep access to services, drugs, etc.

      Personally, I feel too out-of-touch with my emotions to call anything I experience either dysphoria or euphoria. Even pain from physical injuries (from stubbed toes and severe cramps to broken bones) is an emotion that confuses me. So, I sorta feel like I’m taking HRT on a whim even if I do know I do experience dysphoria on some level.