like a general litmus test or something

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      7 months ago

      Well, I’m here to be rational and have a nice discussion. Maybe we can work through that?

      If you don’t mind me asking: what do you ID as politically? Believe it or not we won’t ban you just for not being marxist-Leninist. We tolerate all sorts of liberals.

      What do you mean by pronoun push? Hexbear had a pronoun field, yes. We respect the pronouns people ask us to use, yes. We are never going to force you to use or ID pronouns for yourself. Our site explored has “none/use name” as an option. I personally use the comrade option, because I think that’s nifty and wish it existed irl.

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      7 months ago

      pronoun push

      I don’t want to detract from the main line of discussion here, but I find this to be a weird hangup. It’s been a normal thing since at least Facebook’s founding for social media sites to list the user’s gender. I kind of wish there was a more elegant solution in broadly-understood culture, but I think listing how the user would like to be referred to if you discuss them in the third person is, if anything, far less invasive with labeling than the common alternatives (including not including such information, which produces endless little worthless discursive circles of “actually I’m not a he” from assuming everyone on the internet is a man).