While I said I don’t want it to be a struggle session, cool headed good faith discussion is also appreciated. This just came up with some comrades of mine and I couldn’t find the last post about it so if anyone has the link that would be great too.

  • bubbalu [they/them]@hexbear.net
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    8 months ago

    Also since I am really fruity I have started post-ironically calling straight people and their ideas ‘gay as hell’ which has thrown a lot of people for a loop in a way that has let me deescalate or reescalate on my own terrain.

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      8 months ago

      As someone that grew up around a bunch of queer outcasts in skater and punk crowds that always sort of did this both ironically and unironically to call something cool this tracks.

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        Oh, I mean I do it in a negative sense. Mainly, I homophobically counter-harass straight men who are creeping on my lady friends.