Have any queer vibes to share? Here’s your place! 
Talk about what’s happening queerly in your life - like coming out, getting HRT, questioning, and all that good stuff.
No cishets allowed! 
Have any queer vibes to share? Here’s your place!
Talk about what’s happening queerly in your life - like coming out, getting HRT, questioning, and all that good stuff.
No cishets allowed!
Gonna happypost a little - nine years on from starting hormones, I’m pretty pleased with myself & my life.
In some ways it kind of feels like I haven’t changed dramatically, because I don’t do makeup or dress fancy like all the freshly-trans transfemmes do, but I also feel very chill. I have shed my personally-unhealthy compulsion towards aggressively feminine clothes and commonly wear jeans and oversized men’s tees, or just loose flannels/button ups. I dress for a balance of comfort and aesthetic, and the resulting androgynous-leaning-femme look is something I like. I don’t even wear a bra most days, because they’re UNCOMFORTABLE AND SUCK! I basically dress like a tomboy I guess, and it feels so good.
I share a home with my wife who I love, I’ve been out full-time for the entire time I’ve been on hormones, and shockingly I am building a small social circle of queer people online, which is not something I’ve ever had before. I’m working through issues around being asexual, I love myself & my body, I’m happy being autistic in my own space. Who I am now is who 15-year-old me desperately wanted to be. I am my own goals from a decade ago.
Also I’m gonna read Blackshirts & Reds this coming week which is gonna be awesome.