Hello, so I guess for some context:

I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m trans(MtF), and I will be taking on the journey/process towards presenting as my true self and not the person I’ve been told to be my whole life. While I’ve heard of HRT affecting people’s sexuality to an extent, I assume I will still like women as time goes on since they’re all I ever really liked.

I’m also aware that not all lesbians are going to be okay with dating a trans woman, I’m okay with that and fully understand. I know that rejection can and will happen because of that, and that’s okay :)

I’m not asking because I want to “impersonate” those traits by any means, I’m just genuinely curious what a small part of the lesbian community thinks!

That being said, as the title states, what do you find attractive in other women?

  • Nora
    4·
    9 months ago

    If someone doesn’t like you because you’re trans you’re better off. Genital preference is one thing, but not avoiding someone just because they’re trans makes them a transphobe and not worth your time. Just saying.

    That said. I find attractive assertiveness. Sometimes strength, but I don’t think I care too much how strong they are more how strong they think they are. Haha.

    I like a girl who knows what she likes I guess.

    • ClaireDeLuna@lemmy.worldOP
      3·
      9 months ago

      Awh thanks for the advice ❤️ but yeah I’m aware of that and learned the hard way not to chase someone who can’t accept me for me.

      Also confidence is good :)

      Thanks!