It’s a sunny day, we’re outside, good mood, drinking a coffee. I try to strike a conversation, my gf says its too early for philosophical discussions. I tell her we can instead talk about whatever she feels like. She says she doesn’t want to talk about anything. We weirdly sit in silence for a while. I tell her it’s weird to me, we argue. Is this normal?

  • SwingingKoala@discuss.tchncs.de
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    10 months ago

    It wasn’t actual philosophical talk, she just called it that.

    So you only thought your GF was wrong? I guess that’s better, but it would be much better if you could be more open minded in your relationship too.

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      10 months ago

      I came here for advice and opinions, not to be scolded. You should really practice the way you give “advice”. I’m sure you’re aware it’s a different concept than giving orders.

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        10 months ago

        Good lord, when somebody makes a suggestion you disagree with you think it’s an order. I’m done talking to you, I hope you’ll manage to find the help you need some day.