I wish I could help, but I don’t have enough input. I don’t know how are your relationship with people who like to eat dead animals. I had a friend who was leaning towards vegetarianism, while their SO kept buying meat, this wasn’t a deal breaker but it was another evidence of how they have grown apart etc…

you need to betray yourself (or part of yourself) in order to be loved and chosen.

As long as you don’t feel compelled to betray yourself I think things should work.However the hard part is acknowledging when things aren’t working.

My advice is keeping tabs on yourself and asking yourself how you are feeling