. It’s incredibly freeing to not sweat whether I’m going to be perceived as queer for doing something I like.

I’ve never been super concerned with how people see me but over the past couple years I really stopped giving a shit and it’s great. I paint my nails, wear dresses, leave my long curly hair down (and still have a goaty, rather deep voice and traditional masc frame.) I refuse to call any of those things fem because I like them and I’m not fem therefore they must be gender neutral.

Side benefit is my wife has some really comfy cloths and some of them fit me so now I can steal her stuff too.