That’s what I don’t like about Lemmy. However, that’s what happens when you have federation. If one /c/Apple doesn’t fit your needs, join another /c/Apple. If one /c/Apple gets taken over by a crazed moderator, use the other one. You decide which one you want to post in, but you can follow them all and comment on as many or as few as you want. It’s slightly annoying, but that’s just how it works.