autocorrect keeps wanting to make it “envy,” which isn’t entirely wrong

How did you figure out you were enby?

I’ve come to realize that my super-femme presentation is a form of masking, and I’m trying to figure out where I actually fall in the spectrum of gender.

So yeah, how did you figure out you weren’t “gender” and were actually enby?

Does just thinking that maybe I’m not either mean that probably I’m not either? Is the state of being unsure and kinda in-between where you identify or what?

  • whogivesashit
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    2 months ago

    I always struggled with comprehending gender growing up but kind of just went hard into masculinity because that’s what I thought I was supposed to do. I now realize that I’ve always had an uncomfortable relationship with gender norms and just don’t really care for the performance. I just style myself and present myself however I’m feeling. Some days it’s more masculine, some days more feminine. Very mood and vibes based. I just don’t pay any mind to gender concepts any more really.