The fact that they literally think that me critiquing their language got them to question if I were either a “transphobe or ally” is very questionable. I’m literally a transfeminine (AMAB) enby myself. Nothing of what I said was trans exclusionary. The statement “Some AFABs are men” is literally very trans inclusive. Separating AFABs and men as two mutually exclusive groups, however, isn’t trans inclusive. It’s clearly a pretentious and performative attempt at inclusion because that’s functionally no different than typical TERF-drivel.
I’m going to say this as carefully as possible:
There are trans men who do this as well, and it literally puts amabs in physical danger. I was threatened with death by strangulation for wanting to quit, and he never used my chosen pronouns. I’ve also had one (my ex husband) threaten to call the cops on me and say that he doesn’t feel safe with me in the house then kicking me out all because he wouldn’t leave my room so I pushed him out of it
I give all trans afabs I see love and support, but I will never fucking trust them. They have a privilege that they’ve demonstrated they will use against me when it most suits them and will hurt me the most and will do it without thinking twice.