Even though I still don’t love how I look, I’ve finally reached a point where I can occasionally like my reflection, actually seeing a woman. It’s hit or miss, but the hits feel really good.

Trick question. Ralsei is such a good fluffy boi, his mere existence will end bigotry in an instant.

As a lot of other comments said, what stuff you choose to do or not do is completely up to you, but I think I relate to the want for some kind of guide, just to get an idea of what’s possible in one’s transition. The closest thing I am aware of is this video, “The Transfemme Field Guide:” https://youtu.be/xJHlNX56K2E

It’s not really a guide giving steps on how to transition, it’s more of a collection of tips and advice on various aspects of transitioning, so you can pick and choose which advice to follow. Hope this helps!